Fantasies seem so harmless, but they do contribute to sexual conditioning. So we should all be careful what we get off to, because it shapes our future sexual tastes to some degree. In other words, get off to things that you think you would like to do in real life so that you’re attracted to those things when they show up.37 days PMO free
I feel like a bit of a storm pass passed for me and it’s nice. It was very challenging and I am so glad that I did not use PMO, I know if I use once I’m back to active addiction, I have learned that well from past attempts.
I still get intrusive thoughts and need to look at them deeper, they are fantasies that comfort me but I would hate in real life. They are ultimately unrealistic, and highly destructive and I need to reinforce that when these thoughts come and I am not as urgent to get them out of my head as I could be, they can still feel comforting. I imagine toxic and abusive scenarios that in real life would be awful.
Porn really scrambled my brain and took so much, I want a better life and feel things are heading in the right direction
don’t feed the demon, stay strong!