I was doing it wrong

ozzyb8

New Member
Man I tried to quit PMO so many times, after many failures with women. And had many relapses. That is because I was also abstaining from sex and a healthy amount of masturbation. YOU SHOULD NOT STOP MASTURBATING OR TRYING TO HAVE SEX. Even if you fail. You have to keep your sexual energy alive. You either use it or lose it. Get on with that flatline bullshit. If you're not married or having trouble finding a partner go get a decent hooker. They are masters of human interaction and they're professionals at making you feel special. You can keep visiting the same one if you want more intimacy. If it's difficult to get hard pop a 5mg pill of goodness. First 4-5 times maybe you will struggle, then your erections will get better.

Seriously people, do not intentionally suffer. That is not how it has to be. How can it be healthy at all to avoid any type of human contact for a year? I'm guessing that is why I read so many flatline stories with no resolution. Not orgasming at all will create bigger mental and physical problems. Also it will make it easier to go back to watching P cause you never release that energy build up.

After 9 years of struggling, I found out that the sweet spot is M twice a week, sex at least once a week. Also don't take anything you read on forums at face value. You know yourself better.
 
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