Suggestion required during recovery phase

Worrior-3-H

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Hlo , Hope you are doing well. I have been addicted to PMO for 15 years . 5 years ago I came to know about my addiction and 3 years ago I came to know about my erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculations. During all those years I developed a habit of ejaculation as soon as I developed erection due fear of getting caught. I started my reboot journey some time ago . I was unable to live my life without porn . But my frequency of watching porn decreased with time . I decided to fap to soft porn like insta models and reels. But in the last 2 months I didn't watch the porn and also reels . Now I don't have the urge to watch porn but sometimes I need a quick fix for which I masturbate and I try to not fantasize about porn . Whenever I fap ,in the first round it's very difficult to hold my ejaculation because of PE but I try to hold on by stop and start method . I now have erection not fully hard whenever I fap . My biggest trial was to avoid fantasies. In the last month I tried not to fantasize even sec with my real partner. I had sex a few times . I had sex with my 2 previous gf 3-4 times . With my first gf I didn't get erection and after some time I got erection but PE was biggest prblm to have sex . I get erection to blowjob. She gave me a few times . Eventually relationship ended.
With my 2nd gf first round was not good enough due to PE. But I communicated with her . After 1st round she used to give me BJ and I get erection and then I will be able to have sex but PE was the main problem although I could continue sex for few minutes but with stop and start method. I felt very guilty because she couldn't reach orgasm despite multiple attempts on multiple occasions. Now I am not watching hardcore and soft core porn for the last 2 months. I have a gf whenever we talk fantasies come to my mind . And we are planning to meet . We decided to kiss and hug . What should I do regarding my reboot and premature ejaculation. Should we go for sex . Any suggestions regarding to get rid of all evil effects of porn on my life including PE and erectile dysfunction.

Thanks in anticipation.
 

Worrior-3-H

New Member
Hlo , Hope you are doing well. I have been addicted to PMO for 15 years . 5 years ago I came to know about my addiction and 3 years ago I came to know about my erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculations. During all those years I developed a habit of ejaculation as soon as I developed erection due fear of getting caught. I started my reboot journey some time ago . I was unable to live my life without porn . But my frequency of watching porn decreased with time . I decided to fap to soft porn like insta models and reels. But in the last 2 months I didn't watch the porn and also reels . Now I don't have the urge to watch porn but sometimes I need a quick fix for which I masturbate and I try to not fantasize about porn . Whenever I fap ,in the first round it's very difficult to hold my ejaculation because of PE but I try to hold on by stop and start method . I now have erection not fully hard whenever I fap . My biggest trial was to avoid fantasies. In the last month I tried not to fantasize even sec with my real partner. I had sex a few times . I had sex with my 2 previous gf 3-4 times . With my first gf I didn't get erection and after some time I got erection but PE was biggest prblm to have sex . I get erection to blowjob. She gave me a few times . Eventually relationship ended.
With my 2nd gf first round was not good enough due to PE. But I communicated with her . After 1st round she used to give me BJ and I get erection and then I will be able to have sex but PE was the main problem although I could continue sex for few minutes but with stop and start method. I felt very guilty because she couldn't reach orgasm despite multiple attempts on multiple occasions. Now I am not watching hardcore and soft core porn for the last 2 months. I have a gf whenever we talk fantasies come to my mind . And we are planning to meet . We decided to kiss and hug . What should I do regarding my reboot and premature ejaculation. Should we go for sex . Any suggestions regarding to get rid of all evil effects of porn on my life including PE and erectile dysfunction.

Thanks in anticipation.
My age is 26
Hlo , Hope you are doing well. I have been addicted to PMO for 15 years . 5 years ago I came to know about my addiction and 3 years ago I came to know about my erectile dysfunction and premature ejaculations. During all those years I developed a habit of ejaculation as soon as I developed erection due fear of getting caught. I started my reboot journey some time ago . I was unable to live my life without porn . But my frequency of watching porn decreased with time . I decided to fap to soft porn like insta models and reels. But in the last 2 months I didn't watch the porn and also reels . Now I don't have the urge to watch porn but sometimes I need a quick fix for which I masturbate and I try to not fantasize about porn . Whenever I fap ,in the first round it's very difficult to hold my ejaculation because of PE but I try to hold on by stop and start method . I now have erection not fully hard whenever I fap . My biggest trial was to avoid fantasies. In the last month I tried not to fantasize even sec with my real partner. I had sex a few times . I had sex with my 2 previous gf 3-4 times . With my first gf I didn't get erection and after some time I got erection but PE was biggest prblm to have sex . I get erection to blowjob. She gave me a few times . Eventually relationship ended.
With my 2nd gf first round was not good enough due to PE. But I communicated with her . After 1st round she used to give me BJ and I get erection and then I will be able to have sex but PE was the main problem although I could continue sex for few minutes but with stop and start method. I felt very guilty because she couldn't reach orgasm despite multiple attempts on multiple occasions. Now I am not watching hardcore and soft core porn for the last 2 months. I have a gf whenever we talk fantasies come to my mind . And we are planning to meet . We decided to kiss and hug . What should I do regarding my reboot and premature ejaculation. Should we go for sex . Any suggestions regarding to get rid of all evil effects of porn on my life including PE and erectile dysfunction.

Thanks in anticipation.
 
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