Next generation

[Gracie]

As I sit and write this, I am so pissed. The porn addiction crap has now reared its ugly head in my grad girl’s life. Her husband shared, finally, with her he is a porn addict. She like her grandma, me, by the way, was thinking of suicide. WTF? Why, why, why porn? What is so much better than the wonderful woman that you have? She is devastated and marriage is on the brink. Does no one doing this realize the damage that can come? 60% of divorces have porn as an element. Hopefully we can get him and her the help they need. Pardon me while I say, Fuck You porn! You piece of shit that belongs in no one’s life!

 

[Gracie]

Well was able to talk to grand girl. She is feeling the pain of, was it my body, was it me, what did I do, now I cannot trust him. So sad to me. I would do anything to spare her the pain and confusion that comes with this. She is ashamed and is right now using withdrawal to deal with it. So hard to watch. She was the first grandchild so is very special.

 

[Gracie]

So grand girl is still in the cycle of what to do about the situation. Unfortunately, it appears to be divorce. So another marriage bites the dust due to porn use by a husband. I am devastated that this is happening . I don’t understand how the pixel parade can be preferred over a human partner. Why people risk their job, their married life, their money for an orgasm. The loss is so great. Broken marriages and broken hearts. A complete breakdown of trust.
My heart hurts today.

 

[Gracie]

Well it is absolutely official, my grand girl is divorcing her husband. So porn wins once again. Why, is it necessary to watch? Why is it acceptable to creep around watching, all the while telling a wife you are the only one!? I will never be able to figure it out. Haha if I could I would be wealthy indeed. So sad porn is winning so many battles!

 

[Blank248]

Hi Gracie how sad that’s so tough for your granddaughter it feels like this will certainly happen more and more as the world of media and online becomes very sexualised… just tits and ass everywhere I just try and switch off these days have no respect for my partner in many ways, trust has gone I’m hanging on for now as he’s such a great man in many other ways but I feel as we grow old together i have a love/hate thing going on! We have blockers but at his work the computer is not, so I fear he is tempted I can feel it in my gut. Anyway I’m hoping there is no children so far in your grandy relationship, they just don’t get how it destroys self esteem and trust. Makes me angry reading your story… nothing is more attractive in a partner than true commitment love and just switching off those devices …

 

[Gracie]

Hi Gracie how sad that’s so tough for your granddaughter it feels like this will certainly happen more and more as the world of media and online becomes very sexualised… just tits and ass everywhere I just try and switch off these days have no respect for my partner in many ways, trust has gone I’m hanging on for now as he’s such a great man in many other ways but I feel as we grow old together i have a love/hate thing going on! We have blockers but at his work the computer is not, so I fear he is tempted I can feel it in my gut. Anyway I’m hoping there is no children so far in your grandy relationship, they just don’t get how it destroys self esteem and trust. Makes me angry reading your story… nothing is more attractive in a partner than true commitment love and just switching off those devices …

There are no grandchildren thank goodness. It just pisses me off that men can just decide that hey this is better than you. I know, I know, they just are doing something that has nothing to do for their love of us. Yeah, yeah I get it but I don’t. Choosing porn and hiding it and making a conscious decision to watch. Meanwhile women, like us, are judged every day on our boobs butts and waist. We are expected to wrinkle free too. So, we cannot compare. Just is such a mind game. Glad you spoke up, does make me feel better.

 

[joepanic]

There are no grandchildren thank goodness. It just pisses me off that men can just decide that hey this is better than you. I know, I know, they just are doing something that has nothing to do for their love of us. Yeah, yeah I get it but I don’t. Choosing porn and hiding it and making a conscious decision to watch. Meanwhile women, like us, are judged every day on our boobs butts and waist. We are expected to wrinkle free too. So, we cannot compare. Just is such a mind game. Glad you spoke up, does make me feel better.

"hey this is better than you" Said no man ever. It's called "addiction" Addiction is a sickness and needs to be treatred as a sickness