Ok fellas. It’s been years since I’ve been on this forum. Why? Success, that's why. We all understand porn is bad. I’m now 34 years old. I have a wife and two children who I love dearly. I wouldn’t have found this forum if I wasn’t struggling in the past. The truth is, if I was single tomorrow I would still have the anxiety around sex that I’ve always had. I’m not here to tell you it’s all in your head. We know that’s not true. Im here to tell you that while obtaining from things we know are not helpful (porn) is good. You are not artificially satisfying your needs. But there are also other things to consider. I gained success and freedom by a telehealth visit from the steadman clinic in NYC. Pelvic floor dysfunction is my situation and continues to be.(it’s better with their regiment) The bottom line is, do the right things, be strong mentally and physically, and you will find success. Hope this helps. I probably won’t be back online for another 10 years or so. I was just curious as to what this site has become.