One observation I've made is that some people come here to fix ED, others come to fix their lives. I think that the second group will be more successful.
In my case, I had always tried (but failed) to fix my life, and it wasn't until I realized I was suffering from PIED that I found YBR and started trying to fix my ED. Before long I realized that my ED was a symptom of a much bigger problem, and so I started trying to fix that problem.
Now that I have fixed my relationship problems with my wife, my ED has gone away and we are happier than we have ever been.