I am really affected by SORP's struggle here. It is all of the women's struggles at one point or another in this walk with our husbands as we go through this mine field. And that is what it is. We never know the excuse or justification that might be thrown our way as "the reason". And when our husband says nothing to our questions, then we work on what we think it is. Then we just keep getting diversions thrown our way. Whether things are said to hurt us, or protect us, or to explain to us, it is the rollercoaster ride of a lifetime.
For all the young men that read these comments, be up front with the woman or girl, do not hide it. Deal with it full on. You do owe that to someone you love. For the ones that have hidden it. Figure out a way to be truthful. Do not risk being discovered. Man up. We keep hearing on here about a man's nature, he can't help but notice whatever it is about women. Show some respect. You chose this woman your are with. Why did you choose her? Is it because she is you soul mate? If yes, then bare your soul. Go back to when you chose. Why did she choose you? Are you that exact same person? Do you still look at her through the eyes or love or do you look at her with eyes of comparison?
Do not throw smoke bombs. Love her. Love her. Show her the respect she deserves. and Love her, as she is.
For all the young men that read these comments, be up front with the woman or girl, do not hide it. Deal with it full on. You do owe that to someone you love. For the ones that have hidden it. Figure out a way to be truthful. Do not risk being discovered. Man up. We keep hearing on here about a man's nature, he can't help but notice whatever it is about women. Show some respect. You chose this woman your are with. Why did you choose her? Is it because she is you soul mate? If yes, then bare your soul. Go back to when you chose. Why did she choose you? Are you that exact same person? Do you still look at her through the eyes or love or do you look at her with eyes of comparison?
Do not throw smoke bombs. Love her. Love her. Show her the respect she deserves. and Love her, as she is.