davesaint86
Member
I've been with the same woman going on three months now. I love her more than any woman I have even been with. She means everything to me. I was PMO free for a couple of weeks before I met her. Two months into the relationship I had a relapse and PMO'd for about two weeks. I finally told myself this is stupid and I love this woman so much that I do not want to jeopardize this relationship. I joined this forum and it has been a big help. When I have thoughts of PMO I quickly exit them out of my mind and immediately think of my GF and visualize her and her body. I do not masturbate when I do this. I think pure loving thoughts. I'm now able to sexually function with her about 75% of the time without taking the blue pill. I'm able to function about 90% of the time taking the blue pill. If she was my wife for 20+ years I think I would confess the addiction. Since this a a new relationship and I'm functioning fairly normal do you think there is any reason to confess my addiction. Of course the obvious reason I would not want to do this is because I do not want to lose her. I also do not want to keep things from her. I thought if I have a relapse that then I should possibly confess and ask for her help and support. Thought?