**Accountability Partner Requests**

[Akus]

Hello everyone, I’m here looking for help and to be help for someone who is going to the process of better their life. I finally came to realize and understand the journey can’t be taken alone

Hi there. I too am looking for an accountability partner. I am also completely addicted and need to nreak free of this. If you're up for it, we can fight it together. I am a reasonable and supportive person and quite open minded. Ping me if youre interested

 

[Akus]

I am from Romania. I'm still a addicted to porn. I want someone near me to discuss. I have 30 years.
I have Christian views and I am against porn.
I struggle with porn since I was a kid.

realize and understand the journey can’t be taken alone

Hi there. I too am looking for an accountability partner. I am also completely addicted and need to nreak free of this. If you're up for it, we can fight it together. I am a reasonable and supportive person and quite open minded. Ping me if youre interested

hey guys. im 35. not marries. would like an accountability partner. i just started a thread on here. let me know if any1 would like to partner up to help each other

realize and understand the journey can’t be taken alone

Hi there. I too am looking for an accountability partner. I am also completely addicted and need to nreak free of this. If you're up for it, we can fight it together. I am a reasonable and supportive person and quite open minded. Ping me if youre interested

 

[che-che]

Hi!, I'm new here and I would like to find a partner, preferentially in my time zone (UTC -4) I'm a 38 years old male from Venezuela, my English is not too good and that's another reason for being here, to keep learning and practicing the language while I'm rebooting me. Thanks a lot.

 

[astralon]

35 married from the UK looking for an accountability partner.

 

[EGCo2022]

**Accountability Partner Request Thread**

What is an "accountability partner?" = Accountability partners are pairs who hold each other responsible for their sexual habits - someone who commits to supporting and following you along the process of rebooting.

Why get an accountability partner? A few reasons...

1) As the forum grows it will be hard to keep track of everyone's journals. If you are busy, having a partner will keep things fast and simple. The days you have more time, you can venture off into other journals of course, but if you have a partner you can easily give consistent support and help each other, without becoming overwhelmed by numerous entries.

2) Giving/receiving support during the reboot process is highly beneficial, and if you can consistently do so that is even better. Knowing there is someone who is in this reboot process with you can be very calming and soothing. Knowing you are not alone is very helpful, and it is the truth.

3) You will have someone to relate to. Someone who understands some, if not most, of what you describe during your reboot, and who will be trucking along Recovery Road with you, cheering you on when times are bad, and celebrating with you when positive steps are taken.

*RULES FOR ACCOUNTABILITY PARTNERS*

1) Partners will post IN EACH OTHER'S JOURNAL, or if needed through private messages. This is very important, as your reboot account will remain all in one place, and the forum will not be broken down further into smaller, not as active sections. Ask for a partner in this thread, then once you have one, follow each other's journals and post there!

2) The main forum rules still apply in accountability partner posts. We will be positive and supportive and not push anything on each other. To review the rules go here: *FORUM RULES*

3) You can have more than one accountability partner, but PLEASE avoid doing this unless you are sure you have enough time to be of help to multiple people. The last thing a rebooter needs is a partner quitting on them halfway through their reboot and leaving them feeling abandoned. However, if a situation comes up where you no longer can be a partner (we all know life happens), please let your partner know so they can come back to this thread and request another partner!

4) If your partner relapses, do NOT shame or criticize. This will do no good. Instead offer advice or a different perspective of looking at the situation. Tough love is all right, a personal attack is not. If you have offered all the advice you can give and they keep slipping, you don't have to say anything, just be there for support and reassure them that they can in fact, recover, as many others have before them.

5) Encourage each other to learn as much as possible about this addiction. When you learn something new on this site or YBOP, share it with your partner. The more you know, the better the advice you can give your accountability partner. The better understanding you have of how porn can re-wire and actually numb your brain, hopefully the less desirable porn will become (as happened for me). Then you can come up with a plan of action. In my experience, knowledge is power for rebooters.

6) Just post a comment with a few things about your situation/life/reboot status and request a partner. But first go through earlier comments and see if anyone needs one.

7) After you get a partner please "modify/update" your request post at the top saying you now have a partner. This will save people time who are searching for a partner.

Keep it simple. We are ALL in this together.

Thanks and I hope the best for everyone,

Much love,
Reboot Nation!

Looking for a partner. First time rebooter.

 

[Daybyday1988]

33, married, boston MA area. Looking for an AP!

 

[RamboNofap]

33, married, boston MA area. Looking for an AP!

Hi, I may not be living close to you, but if you are still looking, I'd like to be your AP.
I'm 32, living in the Netherlands in Utrecht. I also checked out the covenanteyes app, looks really interesting too.

 

[hamilton8]

hey guy. im wondering if people want to start a support group doing video calls once a week? please DM for application to the group. We will do it on Microsoft Teams. Thank you

 

[Hydrok9]

HI, I desperately need an accountability partner. I went from being clean to now hopelessly addicted, receding hairline, depression and totally alone for the past 3 years. I just had intensive treatment at a specialized retreat and then trelapsed the next two days!!! Im 33 in Canada. Ive gotten around every porn blocker ther eis so far. thanks everyone and good luck

 

[Daybyday1988]

HI, I desperately need an accountability partner. I went from being clean to now hopelessly addicted, receding hairline, depression and totally alone for the past 3 years. I just had intensive treatment at a specialized retreat and then trelapsed the next two days!!! Im 33 in Canada. Ive gotten around every porn blocker ther eis so far. thanks everyone and good luck

If you're willing to get covenant eyes, then I can offer done support. Already have a great AP but willing to help. Message me if interested

 

[argentite]

Am 33, married and have a newborn.
Main motivation for stopping porn is my newborn, want to be at my best to help sur succeed in life.
Porn addict for over a decade,I need an accountability partner if anyone interested.

Way to go.
Beginning is half done.

I am interested in being your partner.

M also 33 and married.

 

[Iggyg]

Hi,

Looking for an accountability partner. I am 39 and have watched porn since I was a teenager. I have a therapist that I talk with weekly, just need someone who has recovered or is recovering to help me out. After a long season of not trying at all to stop, I am 6 days since my last viewing. Open to anyone really, but if you are single and recovering/recovered that would be great. But, not picky.

Thanks

 

[Daybyday1988]

Hi,

Looking for an accountability partner. I am 39 and have watched porn since I was a teenager. I have a therapist that I talk with weekly, just need someone who has recovered or is recovering to help me out. After a long season of not trying at all to stop, I am 6 days since my last viewing. Open to anyone really, but if you are single and recovering/recovered that would be great. But, not picky.

Thanks

If you're willing to get covenant eyes, then I can offer some support. Already have a great AP but willing to help. Message me if interested

 

[Iggyg]

If you're willing to get covenant eyes, then I can offer some support. Already have a great AP but willing to help. Message me if interested

Hey, thanks. I have had Covenant Eyes before. Great program. However, I've just ended up buying cheap tablets, deceiving the people on Covenant Eyes. If you have suggestions, I'm all ears.

 

[Daybyday1988]

Hey, thanks. I have had Covenant Eyes before. Great program. However, I've just ended up buying cheap tablets, deceiving the people on Covenant Eyes. If you have suggestions, I'm all ears.

I think even if you were to buy a tablet from time to time, you will eventually run out of money and after you get off you will have your moment of clarity and will tell your accountability partner and either destroy the new device or load covenant eyes on to it. But also, you definitely need someone to be accountable to, nit just a corporate business. This means having a person who views your search history through the app and someone you talk with just in general. My friend and i use whatsapp and message eachother now and then and talk about other things but we keep eachothers feet to the fire with staying away from porn. If you want to give it a try let me know

 

[Iggyg]

I think even if you were to buy a tablet from time to time, you will eventually run out of money and after you get off you will have your moment of clarity and will tell your accountability partner and either destroy the new device or load covenant eyes on to it. But also, you definitely need someone to be accountable to, nit just a corporate business. This means having a person who views your search history through the app and someone you talk with just in general. My friend and i use whatsapp and message eachother now and then and talk about other things but we keep eachothers feet to the fire with staying away from porn. If you want to give it a try let me know

I appreciate the offer but I'll look for someone else. Thanks.

 

[jonazo91]

Hi all, I'm not new to this forum but making a new formal request for an accountability partner. You can take a peek at my journal posting on here if you'd like, but basically I'm a 31 year old man who's getting married in October, and I still have a very compulsive porn habit. It's rare for me to go a whole week without PMO. I've had attempts at having accountability partners in the past before but none that have stuck around for very long (either I or the other person would go dark for a while and the correspondence would die off). But I need to make a serious effort to quit now, and I'm promising myself to be much more active in posting here and being accountable about my recovery process. I consider myself to still be veeeery early in my recovery, but I hope I can still be some help to someone else in a similar situation as me. If you're interested, DM me. Thanks.