Should i start my counter???? plz help guys!!!!

gabdu

Member
I went to watch a movie with my friends today, it had 2 sex scene in it. When the scene started i didn't felt aroused, instead i was shouting at myself in my mind that why the hell did i came here. I didn't do it intentionally and in one of my post mr. gary wilson quoted that "It's the pursuit of artificial sexual stimulation via screens that is the problem" and i was not pursuing it, so i think i should not reset my counter. In fact i am proud of my self that even when such a scene was going in front me, i didn't even cared to watch because i badly wanted my pied to be cured.

Plz tell me guys what should i do????
 

challenged

Active Member
Did you masturbate in the theater when you saw the sex scenes?  (I being facetious, of course.)  Just seeing a sex scene or nude woman in a mainstream movie you are watching is nothing to be concerned about -- in terms of your reboot or resetting your counter -- especially when you did not dwell on it or seek to be aroused by it.

I think a lot of guys around here get too obsessed with their counters and resetting them.  The important thing is what is going on your head and your commitment to change and eliminate porn and PMO.  But in this instance, I think this one is a no-brainer.  :)
 

gabdu

Member
Thank you man for your reply, i was thinking about this whole night. No i was not masturbating, just  a thinking that this scene could brake my 31 day streak of not PMOing, i was not at all aroused as i was not at all looking at the scene. I was just hearing some sound, but nothing was intentional.
 

gabdu

Member
I want to ask you another question, i get random erection 1-2 times a day but when i stand it becomes flaccid in no time. Do you deal with same problem??? And will this problem go away during my reboot???
 

challenged

Active Member
I have not experienced this, but I believe I have read other posts on this forum where others have said this is not uncommon.  I have noticed that one of the effects of the reboot process is that erections tend to become more "self-sustaining."  That is, you tend to stay firm for a longer period of time despite a lack of further stimulation or changes in position, etc.
 

gabdu

Member
When i am on the bed or sitting on the chair, the erection lasts longer. Once when i was on my bed i got an erection which was 100% and it lasted for 20 minutes. But when i stood up it became weak in 35 to 40 second.
 
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