A very important question....

[gabdu]

Today i was surfing the internet i saw comment of a guy who was watching porn at regular basis the quote he quoted was

"This kind of thing is the biggest reason that I generally remain single.
Although... kinda funny. I did stop watching porn and trashed all of it once, and didn't watch any for ~6 months... we went from having sex a few times a week to ~1-2 times a month. I was never in the mood and she didn't want to push my buttons... So we went our separate ways. I went back to porn, and have been happy ever since. Have gotten to the point where I generally prefer to be alone and not have to deal with a nag-fest everyday just to get off."

I am not dealing with a dead dick, i get morning wood daily and also get spontaneous erections(now 4-5 times a day) from the day i had left PMOing. what i am dealing with is loss of desire to having sex with a real women. As it has written in the quote above that this guy didn't got his desire to have sex with a women even after 6 months of not watching porn, i am afraid that will my desire to make love to a real woman will ever come back.

 

[Maxime]

It can take much, much longer. And who says this guy wanted to give up porn? It may be true, but I don't think you should fear for yourself. He also sounds like he cares mostly about himself, not wanting to "have to deal with a nag-fest everyday just to get off."
To me, this guy is better off alone, for his sake and women alike.

 

[gabdu]

I think that this guy went back to porn because he wanted to. And thats why he was not interested in real girls. It had been 38 days and i dont have cravings for porn or masturbation, i feel alot of difference like my flaccid size is increased i get random erection 4 times a day and i also get morning wood daily. But when my libido will come back.

 

[Steam rolled]

Good for that guy who chose to not destroy and break womans hearts with his selfish lonely addictive behavior! And only making woman give up on men completly because as P takes over men more and more we'll more and more woman are becoming very bitter and hurt and giving up!! Fact!!

As myself going threw this with my husband for going on 9 months this is not easy but with time will get better.
Your desire will come back!
But get anxiety in check asap.

Good luck!

 

[MikeElam23]

And only making woman give up on men completly because as P takes over men more and more we'll more and more woman are becoming very bitter and hurt and giving up!! Fact!!

Many men out there are bitter and giving up on women too. In fact there's a lot of men who eventually turn to porn because of lack of success with women. For every woman out there that is hurting, there's just as many men. Just saying....

 

[Pr3c1se]

You just need to find the right woman.

 

[Steam rolled]

And only making woman give up on men completly because as P takes over men more and more we'll more and more woman are becoming very bitter and hurt and giving up!! Fact!!

Many men out there are bitter and giving up on women too. In fact there's a lot of men who eventually turn to porn because of lack of success with women. For every woman out there that is hurting, there's just as many men. Just saying....

Agree!
Its to bad that turning to porn for lack of sucess with woman will in return make it that much harder to ever have a long lasting loving relationship.

Im like a magnet to people who want / need to talk ( strangers) and there has been a surge in woman mentioning feeling more and more like objects to men and some / even more of them are really out to get men for it
I personaly have many more male friends and always have had and i try and give them advise and i usally get the response they want me to hear ... and in return they do not listen!

This whole P addiction is ruining love by the second!!!
Its a damn shame

 

[MikeElam23]

And only making woman give up on men completly because as P takes over men more and more we'll more and more woman are becoming very bitter and hurt and giving up!! Fact!!

Many men out there are bitter and giving up on women too. In fact there's a lot of men who eventually turn to porn because of lack of success with women. For every woman out there that is hurting, there's just as many men. Just saying....

Agree!
Its to bad that turning to porn for lack of sucess with woman will in return make it that much harder to ever have a long lasting loving relationship.

Im like a magnet to people who want / need to talk ( strangers) and there has been a surge in woman mentioning feeling more and more like objects to men and some / even more of them are really out to get men for it

Well i don't want to turn this thread into something contentious but I personally get tired of women crying about being treated like sex objects one minute, but then having no problem using their sex appeal to manipulate, get favors, free drinks, and attention from men. Quite frankly women are just as guilty of treating others as sex objects as well, so this isn't just a man thing(have you seen how women act around male strippers?) Human beings in general do that, especially to people who are considered the most physically attractive. Porn is a problem...yes, but at the same time the same women who complain about being treated as sex objects are the ones on instagram, facebook dressing provocatively for "likes" from thirsty men, or on Youtube uploading twerking/booty shaking videos. My point is, the porn problem we have in America, the blame is not just on one party. Blame is on both genders. As many men who are consuming porn, there are just many attractive women getting into it for money, fame, or a platform to start a career in Entertainment.

 

[Maxime]

This is a society issue, and everyone is concerned. I think it's easy to speak with our emotions, especially for people here who live though situations because of this problem, men and women alike. And I agree, you cannot blame one gender for this. We are all in this together. My girlfriend told me at some point while I was reading something on pink cross: ''Don't blame yourself for this. You are also a victim of this industry.'' Sure, it's not the same level, it's not the same thing, but everyone here has been manipulated somehow.