Reeboting but confused, need help!!

Maritime18

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Hey guys,

I am about six weeks into rebooting (now March, started mid January). I am not counting days. Anyhow, I definitely have PIED fairly bad. I PMO'd to online porn for years, mostly in the prone position. I am ready to do whatever it takes to get back to a healthy state of mind. I am definitely flatlining now, but I think I'm making progress and I have a few questions!

1) I am getting morning wood once in a while, and libido while I have it. I don't do anything about the erection. Is that "edging"? Should I stop ignoring it? I'm worried that I'm setting myself back.

2) I am not having wet dreams yet, but during the day while using the bathroom I will occasionally discharge semen. Is this good or bad? Same as a wet dream?

3) Should I start masturbating without porn at some point? I do not have a partner.

4) Any estimates on how long it'll take? To provide context- I am 19, masturbated with online porn for probably between 5 and 6 years, and always used prone masturbation. When I stopped, I could be engaging in sexual relations with a girl in bed and not be aroused at all. I'm still like that, but not sure if it's only because I am currently flatlining. Will I not be able to have sex for years to come?

5) Should I not even THINK about sex? I have no desire to watch porn, but should I not even look at normal pictures of girls on social media? What about talking to girls in a sexual manner?

6) Currently all I'm doing is just not masturbating or watching porn at all. Is there another part of the rewiring process I'm missing? Or is this it?

Thanks so much for any help anyone can give, I'm so scared that I'll never be able to please a woman ever again or have kids. I'm just really intimidated by all this.
 
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