J0ake's Reboot Diary

[J0akes]

Okay guys. I wanna cut out porn, weed, high stimulation activities such as video games, I want to kill just random internet surfing, txting. And basically all anti-social behavior. I want to learn to talk to people again without it being a means to an end. I need some serious help cuz I got a few addictions I know are bad. I'm 20 now and have been looking at porn from a very young age. Like 10 maybe. Video games even younger, weed was only recently no troubles quitting so far, 2 weeks clean.

I wanna reboot. Gimme some ammoz, what am I lookin at? I wanna love again. I want my passion and power and potency back. Lets do this guys!

 

[miomio]

I'd advise you to take one step at a time. Quitting all your addictions at once can be very very hard on your body and especially, mind!

What's your worst "addiction", which one is the lightest? Try to find a realistic hierarchy and start at the bottom.

Apart from quitting pmo and alcohol, I'm also working on my caffeine consumption. So whenever I feel like drinking a coffe at work, I do 50 push-ups.
Maybe you can find alternative activities or rituals too! For example: Shut down texting and keep a journal (pen&paper), it will refrain you from wasting time and sitting in front of the computer.

Where do you live? City, village, country side? See if you can find activities that force you to be around others. We have a lot of University sport courses over here in Germany. It's not about hitting it off with any of the guys or girls from the beginning, but just getting used to socializing again.

Do you have any friends (from back in the day) who are used to a large group of friends? Try to get in contact with them again, see if you can meet up and mingle with the others.

Personally, I have no clue how being dependent on gaming feels like, so maybe some of the other users here can help you out with that!