I read a lot from YBOP about wet dreams. Can you plz help me figure this out.

[lee]

#1 One said:
I know it feels like a relapse, but be assured: it isn't. Be happy that your body works the way it is supposed to work and continue your journey.
#2 One said:
People have different experiences with wet dreams. In some cases, perhaps after the brain has returned to balance, the person notices nothing during the days following. Other people (women have dream orgasms, too!) definitely notice mood changes, extra horniness, increased anxiety and so forth during the days after a wet dream.
#3 One said:
new NoFap'ers: The hangover from wet dreams will be less and less over time. I don't even feel them anymore. My last streak was over 100 days, and I hade maybe 7 in that streak. The first ones were dreadful, left me like a antisocial shaking leaf. But now, they're nothing. Same energy, same drive as the night before.
#4 One said:
The "stopping porn" journey took probably a year or so of NO porn to transform myself. Wet dreams did not reset the whole process. I powered through anyway!
#5 One said:
I'm 26, did more than 120 days without porn and masturbation and had 16 WDs during that time. I didn't really see any of the benefits that people report: confidence, attractiveness, strength. I was in a permanent post orgasmic grogginess. I relapsed at some point and apparently something snapped and I didn't get them any more. Things are very different now after 30 days without any orgasm - I am seeing the benefits.

To be conclusive.
Some said that wet dreams will get less and less annoying the days following after time. After you successful rebooted, wet dream will not make you feel bad at all.
Some said wet dreams do not reset the whole process, but it set you back somewhat.

Just wondering about these opinions.
1. Bad effects VS No bad effects: Cuz some people said they always feel crap after wet dreams even they have a reasonably long PMO free steak. Maybe that is because they are not fully recovered?? Some say the bad effects will disappear after rebooted.

2. Do not reset anyway at all VS reset you back a little.

Can any of you figure this out. omg it is confusing... Forgive me talking this much about wet dreams but recently I almost killed by wet dreams even I am in the 92 days mark. Plz help me

 

[Total Reboot]

Hi lee.

I know from my own experience that I started to get wet dreams fairly frequently after about a week into my reboot.
To me, that seems to suggest that the reboot is working, as it's a change.
As to whether they set you back at all, I would say that they certainly don't take you back to square one, but I couldn't honestly tell you whether they set you back at all.

HOWEVER..... as they are completely out of our control, I really wouldn't worry about it, as there's nothing we can do about them. Just keep on going as normal, and if they mean that it will take you a little longer to recover, so be it (I take it you're in this for the long run anyway, as most people here are).

I think you'll know when you're cured, so I wouldn't worry if I were you if you think the reboot takes a little longer than you expect it to. Just try to ignore the wet dreams and try not to think too much about them (as that's a near sure  way to encourage yourself to relapse), and you should be fine.

I hope this answers your question