DE - 54 years old - already anxious after a few days

bbkenpo

Member
My life has been almost ruined by DE.  I acquired it around 4 years ago.  Never had it until I was 50 years old.

Keep in mind I was able to masturbate to Orgasm with porn or sometimes without porn, but always enjoyed watching porn.  Of course the porn was getting more and more crazy and since I thought watching men cumming would help I tended to watch porn of cumming thinking it would re-train my mind.  Now I know how dumb that concept was.

Have been doing tons of research on this and finally realized that my issue is related to porn and masturbation and now I have given it up, only 3 days ago.

I have a new girlfriend and we have been making passionate love but not once have I been able to cum.  Not even close.  But today I have this buildup that is driving me crazy and I want to release it by M so badly but I want to cure my DE even more so I am not going to M.

I will try and keep this updated but I am almost 100% positive stopping M is going to make my DE dissolve.  I remember that with my last Girlfriend I had the same terrible issue and then we would masturbate me for such a long time so I could get off, or I would do it the next morning but that always gave me an out... so this time if I literally don't touch it, but only let her touch it and we make love, at some point I fully expect to cum.

Any thoughts are appreciated.  Thank you so much!
 

Brooklyn Jerry

Active Member
I have read here that when you MO or PMO often it makes you less sensitive. I know when I used Viagra it sure caused DE. I am a bit  older but have found that if,I don't ejaculate for a week I can cum during intercourse, if I edge it  it may take oral or a rough HJ to,get me to cum. You seem to have the right idea. Good luck.
 

bbkenpo

Member
Brooklyn Jerry said:
I have read here that when you MO or PMO often it makes you less sensitive. I know when I used Viagra it sure caused DE. I am a bit  older but have found that if,I don't ejaculate for a week I can cum during intercourse, if I edge it  it may take oral or a rough HJ to,get me to cum. You seem to have the right idea. Good luck.

Thank you so much.  I am so encouraged!  I can't even believe I am reading the stories here that resonate so well.  I cannot wait to O without M or PMO.  Thank goodness I have a new girlfriend and the sex is out of this world, yet to O but I am not going to try anything else.
 
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