Thank you for clarifying where your brain is at. That is helpful. And when we referred to your age affecting your view, it is because we remember how we thought of things in our 20's. And we realize how much just living life changed those thoughts. As an unmarried 20 something, it would be difficult if not impossible to understand the great harm that occurs when porn addiction is in a relationship. Just as you have said your past life has led to a distrust of women, porn leads men to not value their wives. And teaches them that their wives and families aren't good enough.
So if you read the effects of porn, you see that just two or three times a week of soft core porn, Cinemax type, can turn a marriage or relationship upside down. When you have been married for years or decades, this has a major impact when it is discovered. We wives, partners are here to heal. We are here to help men see it is not about the state of their dick. It is about relationships. It is about communicating. Most addicts state, I was lonely, I was angry, I felt worthless, I was scared, I was anxious, I felt unloved. All things that can be helped by reaching out to others. And in fact the only way they can be helped is by doing that. Instead they go into secrecy, lying, up at night alone and PMO which drives them to be more alone and feel worse.
We partners want men to know that reaching out is possible. If your wife seems far away, who moved? We want them to know that we already know someting ain't right so talk to us. Talk to us. Come out of the lonely place, we are here.
So if you read the effects of porn, you see that just two or three times a week of soft core porn, Cinemax type, can turn a marriage or relationship upside down. When you have been married for years or decades, this has a major impact when it is discovered. We wives, partners are here to heal. We are here to help men see it is not about the state of their dick. It is about relationships. It is about communicating. Most addicts state, I was lonely, I was angry, I felt worthless, I was scared, I was anxious, I felt unloved. All things that can be helped by reaching out to others. And in fact the only way they can be helped is by doing that. Instead they go into secrecy, lying, up at night alone and PMO which drives them to be more alone and feel worse.
We partners want men to know that reaching out is possible. If your wife seems far away, who moved? We want them to know that we already know someting ain't right so talk to us. Talk to us. Come out of the lonely place, we are here.