Am I totally abnormal? I am a female obsessed with sex and porn

[addictedmelissa]

I don't know any wine like me. I enjoy broadcasting myself masturbating on web cams, I watch porn a lot and I will orgasm at least 3 or 4 times a day even at work. Most women seem to avoid sex and I am obsessed with it. My sexual appetite is much stronger than my husbands but that is not to say that he has a low sex drive. His is pretty high just not as high as mine. I struggle with this daily.

 

[malando]

I don't know any wine like me. I enjoy broadcasting myself masturbating on web cams, I watch porn a lot and I will orgasm at least 3 or 4 times a day even at work. Most women seem to avoid sex and I am obsessed with it. My sexual appetite is much stronger than my husbands but that is not to say that he has a low sex drive. His is pretty high just not as high as mine. I struggle with this daily.

Hi Melissa, I guess the indication of whether you have a problem is whether you find real sex boring compared to looking at P while you satisfy yourself. If you still find real sex very enjoyable, you might not be damaged in the sense that many of us guys are. But if you find you prefer P to real sex, or that you need to fantasise about hardcore images when having real sex in order to O, then I think you have a problem. Men find out very quickly if they have a P reliance because we suffer from erectile dysfunction. Obviously women don't experience that, but I believe it is possible to have problems reaching O if you have a porn problem. It can signify that your brain is exhausted from all the dopamine hits it's getting and can't get to the same level of arousal anymore. If you are Oing 3-4 times a day, obviously you are physically ok, but I would still ask you to think about whether you need P as your way of getting aroused rather than real sex with your husband? If so, there could be a problem developing.

Regards,
M.

 

[Boo]

I don't know any wine like me. I enjoy broadcasting myself masturbating on web cams, I watch porn a lot and I will orgasm at least 3 or 4 times a day even at work. Most women seem to avoid sex and I am obsessed with it. My sexual appetite is much stronger than my husbands but that is not to say that he has a low sex drive. His is pretty high just not as high as mine. I struggle with this daily.

I'll jump in here. You didn't really ask any questions except "am I abnormal?" I'll pose a few to you. Do you expose yourself on webcams for money? If so, you're prostituting yourself. Maybe your husband's okay with that?

I disagree that most women avoid sex. Maybe just the ones you know. Most women don't need 4 orgasms a day to be happy. If you're at that level consistently you'll be burning out your dopamine receptors eventually. This will diminish your ability to experience pleasure in many aspects of life.

I suppose you have a sex addiction coupled with neurotic exhibitionism. What's your real purpose in coming here with this? Do you want your life to take a different turn? Maybe what seems abnormal to some may feel normal to you. It's all subjective.

 

[Branch]

I don't know any wine like me. I enjoy broadcasting myself masturbating on web cams, I watch porn a lot and I will orgasm at least 3 or 4 times a day even at work. Most women seem to avoid sex and I am obsessed with it. My sexual appetite is much stronger than my husbands but that is not to say that he has a low sex drive. His is pretty high just not as high as mine. I struggle with this daily.

Let's toss aside "abnormal" and try a different description.  I'd say you are uniquely yourself.  I don't think there are many other women like you, and I don't think that in itself is a bad thing.  As Boo says, it's all subjective.  If you're somehow troubled by your sexuality, or if you're not controlling it but it's controlling you, then I think you have issues to deal with.  You're the only one who can answer that.  If you think you do have issues, RN will probably be helpful to you.

I hope you find the answers you seek!

 

[klarson27]

Does your husband know?

If not, then you likely have a serious problem...

Will you lose your job if your work finds out (are you using P at work?)

If so, and you continue to do it then you likely have a problem.