Homerdough
Member
As a 27 yr old, who’s had sex with multiple women, never have I ever ejaculated from penetrative intercourse. I can count on one hand the amount of times I ejaculated from oral and I believe this is called Delayed Ejaculation (DE)
I strongly believe that the cause of this is due to my death grip from 15 yrs of basically daily masturbation and I’ve been “trying” to quit porn/PMO for about 8 yrs now. My longest streak was 40 days
in my experience, when I go more than 2 days or so without ejaculating or even looking for anything sexual, my penis feels utterly amazing to touch, which obviously makes me want to jerk off. So that’s a decent cue/external motivation to reach for 2-5 days of no pmo
and on my longest streaks, I’ve noticed that i had somebody else doing it with me (No Nut November to be exact). I didn’t nut for that month but I was on an absolute tear of sexting anybody I can, which led to massive amounts of edging (I know, basically worse than just pmoing )
Recently within the past 2 yrs, I’ve been going on sex chat sites and essentially “edging” for 2+ hrs sometimes by trying to sext with the “pink” users on the site (which were supposed to be female but in reality are likely 99% of the time guys). The pink name makes it easy to subvert that if they’re lying and talking about female body parts or whatever
Anyway, realizing that having accountability and not relying solely on willpower is crucial to kicking this addiction, I’m starting this journal so I can finally have sex with a woman and finish from penetrative sex. Let’s say it’ll be my 2022 resolution
My plan going forward is to bookmark this site, and visit it whenever I have an urge (which I’ve realized is definitely around when I go to sleep, looking at my phone). Honestly, it might be a bad idea to use my phone because I’m 100% a mobile jerker so a good environmental system cue to make it “harder” to jerk off is to put my phone in the drawer at 11pm before I start to wind down
Frequenting dating apps is a common trigger for me, but at the same time, has been the best way for me to meet women so to circumvent this, I should really not be using these apps before I sleep and after I wake.
Day 1 begins as of 9am (my trigger was scrolling dating apps in my bed in my boxers) and let’s see if this forum stuff helps
I strongly believe that the cause of this is due to my death grip from 15 yrs of basically daily masturbation and I’ve been “trying” to quit porn/PMO for about 8 yrs now. My longest streak was 40 days
in my experience, when I go more than 2 days or so without ejaculating or even looking for anything sexual, my penis feels utterly amazing to touch, which obviously makes me want to jerk off. So that’s a decent cue/external motivation to reach for 2-5 days of no pmo
and on my longest streaks, I’ve noticed that i had somebody else doing it with me (No Nut November to be exact). I didn’t nut for that month but I was on an absolute tear of sexting anybody I can, which led to massive amounts of edging (I know, basically worse than just pmoing )
Recently within the past 2 yrs, I’ve been going on sex chat sites and essentially “edging” for 2+ hrs sometimes by trying to sext with the “pink” users on the site (which were supposed to be female but in reality are likely 99% of the time guys). The pink name makes it easy to subvert that if they’re lying and talking about female body parts or whatever
Anyway, realizing that having accountability and not relying solely on willpower is crucial to kicking this addiction, I’m starting this journal so I can finally have sex with a woman and finish from penetrative sex. Let’s say it’ll be my 2022 resolution
My plan going forward is to bookmark this site, and visit it whenever I have an urge (which I’ve realized is definitely around when I go to sleep, looking at my phone). Honestly, it might be a bad idea to use my phone because I’m 100% a mobile jerker so a good environmental system cue to make it “harder” to jerk off is to put my phone in the drawer at 11pm before I start to wind down
Frequenting dating apps is a common trigger for me, but at the same time, has been the best way for me to meet women so to circumvent this, I should really not be using these apps before I sleep and after I wake.
Day 1 begins as of 9am (my trigger was scrolling dating apps in my bed in my boxers) and let’s see if this forum stuff helps