I often wonder why that is, why sometimes sex drive is high and then as I said 99 percent of the time I couldn't really care about sex. Messes with your head really - especially when you have this anxiety about performing without going soft in your head aswell
I've also had weird dreams where even in the dream I'm worried about going soft and shit Hahaha, but yeah sounds like we have a pretty similar problem but my theory as of now is my sex drive is low due too me always wondering if I can perform, but the weird thing is some days Im able too get an...
Also due too this I find my sex drive too be low like I could take or leave sex most of the time - this is due too the anxiety surrounding it i have no doubt do you feel the same way?
I'm the exact same way it's coming up on 2 years now since I started my reboot, and I'm ALWAYS thinking about my libido - If my sex drive is high enough too get turned on and if I get an erection if I'm going too go soft as it's happened a fair few times. This in turn makes me always in my head...