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Does your wife know you watched porn at all? Coming clean of it to your wife if she did not know is a controversial topic here. My wife knew before we were married that i surfed porn. She does not know that I became somewhat addicted to it. I've also mentioned in passing that I don't bother...

Feeling pretty good about things these days

Hey you time warped 10 days in 24 hours:ROFLMAO:

Gentlemen we all know what porn has done to us some of us have beaten it some still working on it. My topic today is how do we keep the next generation of young males from following the same mistakes we have made. I find that the addiction had slowly just crept in not realizing it till I...

Wow where did the time go has it really been almost 3 weeks Old habits are just that old habits. porn really was just the tip of the iceberg. It's funny in can't say as I get a whole lot more sex since giving up porn. maybe even less due to how busy we are in our household. Something i...

ahhh weight goes down and weight goes up 251.4 today such is life still porn free and I would like to say that's all that matters but it's only the tip of the iceberg. Working on more important things today than just staying away from porn

So much more focused these days and only 1 mo in 15 days and no urges to do it. the one I did do I don't think was stress related or frustrations of any kind. it just feels good so why not. I don't think it's hurting anyone Sp all is good at the moment

249.8 How did I manage to dump just over a lb in 24 hours? I think eating really healthy is number 1. Dangermouse I think most of us need to take a little better care of ourselves. Porn addiction does not cause us not to but not taking care of ourselves I think can lead to porn addiction

251.0 the weight is coming off its good to be able to focus these days Gonna get the "masculine" dad bod by summer time Bring on the beach

Sounds very familiar My dad had a lot of expectations of me but never taught me much although today he is 80 and he would like to think he taught me a lot. In his defense he had to work long hours to support us and today he is happily retired and healthy and I don't much have to worry about...

We have gone through the same things over the years. External issues that we really didn't have much control over. required lots of understanding and talking I know the feeling. Always just keep the line of communication open

252.2 all good

253.6 just a number for me to remember. Cheers

"Sometimes" Not always of course, someone in a relationship will pull away for their own reasons. They may use the other persons shortcomings as an excuse because it's the easy way out. Again was their any other topics of contention over the years that may be at play here?

Thanks Dangermouse I am now in the next phase of recovery. Basically going back and attempting to live the kind of life I should have started living 35-40 years ago. I think the problem many of us face...especially men, is a lack of mentorship. My dad was like many fathers of that time...

Going to start the health program bare with me for a few days as my journal may be a little repetitive and mundane I did this several years ago and it really helped to keep me focused not so much on staying away from porn but on living the life I should have been living. Sort of going to...

What tactics are you using to deal with some of these negative feelings? Does you wife know your a porn addict?

Another 10 days has gone by with no mo. It's becoming a more common thing for me these days. We made love on Friday night probably the 1st time in 3 weeks which. Who knows it could be another 3 weeks till we do again. It used to be something we did weekly. At the moment I don't find the...

Any chance she will visit with your psychologist? It might take a professional to help her see your changes and improvements. Has she ever saw one of her own? You also mention "things have been getting worse between us". Are you fighting about other topics such as money, time management...

Many people here and everywhere have many different views... kind of what makes the world go around. I never felt you were having a go at me at all. I know our views differ here and there, That's what makes for healthy debate. When I mention thoughts of someone from my past and my wife...