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I am almost a month in to my reboot. I feel much better, have been getting random erections and feeling aroused when thinking of actual sex with a girl. I know I wouldn't have PIED if I were to have sex so that's not a worry. I just feel great mentally, have seen a reduction in anxiety and my...

I'm a 22 year old single male. I have what one would call a friend with benefits. When I go on a streak, say I make it 10 days, I feel amazing. I feel more manly, I feel horny, girls are prettier, I get random erections, my social anxiety diminishes, I feel more confident, my voice gets deeper...

It seems as if I'm only aroused by images and fantasies of watching other people have sex, or as if I am watching from a cameras point of view. Is this simply conditioning? Will this fade in time? For example I am more aroused by the fantasy of watching a girl ride from a cameras point of view...

It's like I have a weak erection. I can bend it down without much resistance. It feels like I have no base to my penis if that makes sense. It feels almost like an "empty" erection, like theirs blood flow but it's almost flappy. Maybe 60 70 percent hard. Far from rock hard. Is this PIED?

Has this happened to anybody? It seems as if all my sex dreams and fantasies are of OTHER people having sex. I'm never involved. Will this go away?

Porn is more of a problem in my opinion because of the fact that it releases a huge amount of dopamine that is unattainable in real life sex. To have an unending supply of the most beautiful women at the click of a button nonstop whenever you want drains us neuro chemically and creates addiction...

This is me when it comes to sex: weak erection, premature ejaculation, why am I not enjoying this? What's wrong with me? Why can't I get hard? Why am I not normal? Am I gay? I am 21 and should be able to have sex as much as I want. Why am I not being turned on like I use too? Why do i cum so...

So here I am. Turning 22 years old. I am sitting in a vacant park playing catch with my dog. Not to sound like a total bitch, but I've lost a lot of friends in the last few years. Don't really have a lot left. Just one close one. I seem to not fit the standard masculine ideal. I'm more of an...

I have been watching porn and masturbating since I was 12. I am now 21. When I have sex, especially recently, as soon as I put my penis inside her vagina I feel as if I am going to cum. I usually have very slow, romantic kind of sex with a lot of kissing and slow thrusts. I don't last long...

I've had sex with about 15 girls an I'm 21. I was I a relationship for 2 years and she dumped me 7 months ago. I've had sex with only 2 girls since. I straight up suck at sex. There has only been one time in my life I've been able to penetrate a girl for more than 20 minutes and that's where I...

It's been 5 months since we've broken up. She was my first love and we were together for 2 years. She was my bestfriend, literally. I did everything with her. Spent almost everyday for 2 years with her. I took her virginity and she was the first girl that I ever felt an emotional connection so...

I don't understand this. Since I have HOCD which is this irrational fear of me being gay despite the fact that I only get hard to women and have only ever kissed and had sex with women, my brain is getting scared that I'm not getting erections to thoughts of having sex with girls so it wants me...

Just want to know if anybody HOCD has improved with abstaining from porn. Ever since I was a little kid I was obsessed with females and their naked bodies. I remember seeing a woman's body for the first time as a kid and being so amazed and aroused. I started watching porn young at age 12. But I...

 am on 60 days hardmode. I have had a few peeks of normal libido here and there. I will experience groups of days where i am extremely horny and want to rip any girls pants off and then I will experience week's where I am completely dead and asexual. I just want to know from anyone's experience...

I am 20 days in without PMO. I had an urge today and went and typed "jynx maze" on google and I already had a boner. Luckily enough I didn't click on it and closed the browser. What is this a sign of? Sensitization? How sick is that. I get more of a boner by typing in a pornstars name on google...

Has anybody with HOCD seen a reduction in thoughts and anxiety after doing NoFap hard mode? I never escalated into gay porn because it never aroused but I did start having intrusive gay thoughts when I turned 19. Before this point I had had sex with 12 girls and only ever fantasized about women...

It seems to me that whenever I have an orgasm the symptoms associated with my addiction (anxiety, low self esteem, HOCD thoughts, etc.) come roaring back. I am 79 days without looking at porn and I had a month streak of hard mode (no orgasm) going. I got a blowjob over the weekend in which I...

I would like to know from any of those doing NoFap or those who have completed a successful reboot, how was sex while you were addicted to porn (pre-NoFap) vs. when you healed or completed a reboot (post NoFap)? For me, I started having sex at 15 years old. I had sex with about 12 girls until I...

When I started watching porn at 12 years old I didn't feel inferior to other men. By the time I was 19 and realized I was addicted, a growing sense of feeling inferior to other men has been inside my head. I can't get it out. Now, no matter what I do, I always feel as if I'm not manly enough. I...

I'm on 8 days of NoFap. I have HOCD and am also an avid pot smoker. I haven't smoked in 5 day. What I've noticed is the following after just 8 days without porn and masturbation: - Clearer minded; no brain fog, my mind feels sharp. This may be due to the fact I haven't smoked weed either. -...