Hi fellows!
First of all, I need to say how much knowledge I gained in less than a week. How much your stories helped me to understand that I wasn't alone and also to discover, for the first time in my life that I HAVE a problem. and because for every problem there's a solution, I have committed myself to do it!.
I'm 23 years old and I study and work hard to achieve my goals. I consider myself an attractive person without problems to have any kind of relationship with anyone. I don't have any confidence problems, I know what I want and I'm always trying to reach it no matters what.
BUT... (You will see that I'm not pretending to be an arrogant bitch)
Four days ago -June 30 Th of 2014- something happened to me. For the first time in my life, I was in bed with a hot foreign girl, I've been looking for that chance for the whole semester (since she's an international exchange student), and I wasn't able to perform! Nothing at all!
I felt so bad, I bit desperate if I have to describe my feelings. My solution was just to blame the wine we took before the failed sexual encounter and also I said I was really tired because I've gotten up really early that morning.
Non of that was a lie, but I knew that it wasn't the real thing. I knew that something was happening there and, since I stayed for good night of sexless cuddling and sleeping, I got the whole night to thing what the hell was happening to me.
To finish the story, I came back to my place and the very next day I jerked off watching porn, just to demonstrate to myself that I was able to have an erection with some stimulus and that I was just a bad night. And I succeeded! (My happy world made out of false expectations was working again)
Of course I couldn't be more wrong, and that's what you guys made me understand.
I've been reading a lot since Tuesday's night and I learnt many things. I felt identified with many of the sensations that you describe while being porn addicts (brain fog, ED of course, the big need to novel porn images, being confused of why I liked such hardcore porn, irritability...
Man, I even realize that I haven't enjoyed sex or even kissing with a girl since years. I wasted some of the best years of my sexual life imagining that I was a porn actor and thinking about the videos I've seen thousands of times instead of enjoying the exact moment with awesome girls. I just feel very stupid. It would be like being gifted with the chance of being the best player at any sport and instead of seizing the opportunity, you prefer to play that sport on your favourite video game console.
Anyway, I'm sorry for the long introduction.
I'm here and this is my day 3. Let's see what happens!
Thanks in advance for the support and since English it's not my mother tongue, you will have to excuse me if I wrote something weird. I'm just writing everything as it flows from my mind.
First of all, I need to say how much knowledge I gained in less than a week. How much your stories helped me to understand that I wasn't alone and also to discover, for the first time in my life that I HAVE a problem. and because for every problem there's a solution, I have committed myself to do it!.
I'm 23 years old and I study and work hard to achieve my goals. I consider myself an attractive person without problems to have any kind of relationship with anyone. I don't have any confidence problems, I know what I want and I'm always trying to reach it no matters what.
BUT... (You will see that I'm not pretending to be an arrogant bitch)
Four days ago -June 30 Th of 2014- something happened to me. For the first time in my life, I was in bed with a hot foreign girl, I've been looking for that chance for the whole semester (since she's an international exchange student), and I wasn't able to perform! Nothing at all!
I felt so bad, I bit desperate if I have to describe my feelings. My solution was just to blame the wine we took before the failed sexual encounter and also I said I was really tired because I've gotten up really early that morning.
Non of that was a lie, but I knew that it wasn't the real thing. I knew that something was happening there and, since I stayed for good night of sexless cuddling and sleeping, I got the whole night to thing what the hell was happening to me.
To finish the story, I came back to my place and the very next day I jerked off watching porn, just to demonstrate to myself that I was able to have an erection with some stimulus and that I was just a bad night. And I succeeded! (My happy world made out of false expectations was working again)
Of course I couldn't be more wrong, and that's what you guys made me understand.
I've been reading a lot since Tuesday's night and I learnt many things. I felt identified with many of the sensations that you describe while being porn addicts (brain fog, ED of course, the big need to novel porn images, being confused of why I liked such hardcore porn, irritability...
Man, I even realize that I haven't enjoyed sex or even kissing with a girl since years. I wasted some of the best years of my sexual life imagining that I was a porn actor and thinking about the videos I've seen thousands of times instead of enjoying the exact moment with awesome girls. I just feel very stupid. It would be like being gifted with the chance of being the best player at any sport and instead of seizing the opportunity, you prefer to play that sport on your favourite video game console.
Anyway, I'm sorry for the long introduction.
I'm here and this is my day 3. Let's see what happens!
Thanks in advance for the support and since English it's not my mother tongue, you will have to excuse me if I wrote something weird. I'm just writing everything as it flows from my mind.