Hi friends,
First time I've ever posted in anything like this, so bear with me!
I'm addicted to porn. Not sure if I'm addicted to masturbating, but for sure I'm addicted to doing it while online. Lately I've been spending more and more time in webcam rooms looking for a female to share myself (and herself with). I KNOW this is wrong on so many levels.
First a bit about me. I'm married, with 2 kids. I'm happily married - in fact I married my best friend almost 25 years ago. We are well off and have careers that are flying. We're living the American dream by all standards. 2 cars, cabin, boat and a healthy sex life. But for some reason I get distracted or drawn to the web and looking for "virtual encounters".
I've been doing this for a couple of years, off and on. But it wasn't until lately that I began thinking about it - a lot. And I am engaging in it - a lot. I have never been unfaithful in the real world.
I find it highly arousing at the time (even thinking about it now I'm tempted to go look). But when it is all over I feel disgusted with myself and ashamed as I know I have everything any man could ever want.
I have a job where I can work from home. I think that's a trigger for me when I am alone. I figure "what can it harm" - the beast inside my mind gets the best of me.
Today I masturbated online. It's unbelievable because I have a discussion in my brain about what is right and wrong, think of your family, your career, your place in the community, etc. - but the beast has been winning a lot lately. And I'm having a tough time controlling him.
Today when I got the urge, I immediately hit the ground and did 40 pushups. When he got me again, I did 20 more. I thought I could deflect him this way. But it didn't work for long. I've been reading about the positive effects meditation can have on "rewiring" the mind and have begun experimenting with that as well. For me that hasn't worked yet. In fact just writing about this, I am so tempted right now to listen to the beast and going back into a cam site.
I thought I could lick this thing on my own, but I don't think I can.
I need support from you. Any hints, tips, exercises and advice is welcome.
I want to beat this addiction.
Thanks for reading.
KI
First time I've ever posted in anything like this, so bear with me!
I'm addicted to porn. Not sure if I'm addicted to masturbating, but for sure I'm addicted to doing it while online. Lately I've been spending more and more time in webcam rooms looking for a female to share myself (and herself with). I KNOW this is wrong on so many levels.
First a bit about me. I'm married, with 2 kids. I'm happily married - in fact I married my best friend almost 25 years ago. We are well off and have careers that are flying. We're living the American dream by all standards. 2 cars, cabin, boat and a healthy sex life. But for some reason I get distracted or drawn to the web and looking for "virtual encounters".
I've been doing this for a couple of years, off and on. But it wasn't until lately that I began thinking about it - a lot. And I am engaging in it - a lot. I have never been unfaithful in the real world.
I find it highly arousing at the time (even thinking about it now I'm tempted to go look). But when it is all over I feel disgusted with myself and ashamed as I know I have everything any man could ever want.
I have a job where I can work from home. I think that's a trigger for me when I am alone. I figure "what can it harm" - the beast inside my mind gets the best of me.
Today I masturbated online. It's unbelievable because I have a discussion in my brain about what is right and wrong, think of your family, your career, your place in the community, etc. - but the beast has been winning a lot lately. And I'm having a tough time controlling him.
Today when I got the urge, I immediately hit the ground and did 40 pushups. When he got me again, I did 20 more. I thought I could deflect him this way. But it didn't work for long. I've been reading about the positive effects meditation can have on "rewiring" the mind and have begun experimenting with that as well. For me that hasn't worked yet. In fact just writing about this, I am so tempted right now to listen to the beast and going back into a cam site.
I thought I could lick this thing on my own, but I don't think I can.
I need support from you. Any hints, tips, exercises and advice is welcome.
I want to beat this addiction.
Thanks for reading.
KI