Please help i have questions!

Stevew

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So i've been watching porn for well over an hour per day for a good 5 years, masturbating 1 to 2 times per day. The porn i've watched is also pretty extreme. Anyways i have stopped for a good week now. I still get morning erections although they used to be harder. Anyways i don't seem to get semi erections looking at girl and cleavage etc... since i have started... i guess i'm in the flatline stage right? How long until i will get semi erections over things like that again? Also because i do get morning erections still is my case that severe. In the past i have also masturbated over people i know in real life and certain events i witnessed... won't go into detail.
Could it take me up to 9 months if i get morning wood still? I woke up this morning with no erection but layed in bed and got one.
Please help!
Steve
 

DonnyD

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There's no single road, it depends on your psychological state, your sexual experience, how your brain was wired on porn and so on. Besides, "nofap" is not based on extensive medical research where we have been given typologies of what to do by researchers. So even if it definitly helps (getting your brain of porn is obvious), the actual process in it's details and the best road to take is still relatively blurry.

You'll just have to do it and wait for your brain to get rid of it's porn adiction, whatever the time it might take.
 

Stevew

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I was at the gym and saw a really hot woman... i felt quite horny but my dick didnt go hard/grow... is that a sign that i have actual ED. I'm about 10 days in no porn or fap.
 
I can give you my answers to your questions/concerns, but each of us will be different.

I was at the gym and saw a really hot woman... i felt quite horny but my dick didnt go hard/grow... is that a sign that i have actual ED.

Not from my perspective. Personally, I'd be relieved that I didn't get a boner in the gym. I always have a 'hard time' trying to hide it and am afraid I look like a pervert with wood in my shorts. So I have to go straight to the nearest cardio to get the blood relocated to other parts of my body.  :-[

My symptoms of PIED included:
  • Couldn't MO without P.
  • When the action was getting going and I was hard, I started putting on the condom and the erection left... and didn't really return with the condom on.
  • I was erect and getting a bj, then suddenly went limp.
  • I had a "dead in bed." She took off her clothes, laid on her back, and closed her eyes. I tried to get some action going, but it was like trying to screw a corpse. Maybe if I wasn't already draining my mojo on PMO, it could have ended differently. But this was just not producing any kind of rise in my dick.
In most of these cases, I was able to finish by MO, although I really didn't return to a full erection.

So i've been watching porn for well over an hour per day for a good 5 years, masturbating 1 to 2 times per day.

That's not as long as many. My PMO had been about that long, but with about a year break in the middle with less frequent MO, mostly. Since we're newer to PMO and if you didn't start as a teen, it probably won't take as long to find some kind of normal, based on what I've read about rebooting. I was 2 weeks before morning wood really come back. 20 days of no PMO, MO, PM, P, M, or O, and I had an O in the shower after very little M. I'm coming up on 30 days without PMO, so I'm still too new to have much more opinions.
 

Stevew

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Thing is i still got random erection while i was doing porn masturbation etc... although if i had done it near to the end of the day.. close to bed time god i sound 10... the next dasy i wouldn't wake with one. Today funnily enough i didn't wake up with one but i remained in bed and i got one of which was pretty hard.. glands weren't though, i pee'd and it remained for a bit longer. Anyways i can't be too severe right? And i wanted to get a boner to see how bad my case was. I just really want to be sure this is porn induced. I mean the porn i have watched went from vanilla and over the years become more and more extreme... like i probable won't get as hard watching normal porn.
 
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