Get hard erections but doing NO PMO anyway?

Triptonicmaph

Active Member
I get super hard erections but I know P has affected my life negatively. So I am currently doing no PMO. Is no PMO only for people with ED? Will trying NO PMO for months erase the negative effects of P ??

 
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OSS

Guest
Do you get hard with real women?

PIED is only really the tip of the iceberg. No PMO will definitely improve your life if it's caused harm. I'm going out on a limb to say you can very likely have sex and masturbate and still erase the negative effects. If you don't see any progress after a few months you may benefit from trying no orgasm for a short period also
 

Triptonicmaph

Active Member
http://pmo-tracker.appspot.com/info?u=4906508731023360

OSS said:
Do you get hard with real women?

PIED is only really the tip of the iceberg. No PMO will definitely improve your life if it's caused harm. I'm going out on a limb to say you can very likely have sex and masturbate and still erase the negative effects. If you don't see any progress after a few months you may benefit from trying no orgasm for a short period also

Thank you for the reply man!

Nope, Haven't been with a real woman.. damn.. so yeah I see ur point. I will definitely continue no pmo for as long as I get a partner! Thanks again.

 
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Mart71

Guest
Speaking of reasons to stop watching porn:

When I started with no-PMO, at first I only did it to recover from P.I.ED. Since then I learned and experienced myself, that long-term porn use has severely numbed me emotionally, influenced the way I see women and distorted my sexuality.These three things changed for the better after I stopped watching porn for a few months. These internal changes are the reason, why I never want to return to porn. Oh, and it gives me a limp dick, let's not forget that. LOL

I don't believe in no-PMO (as in simply being abstinent)giving anyone "super-powers". Imo these effects are usually a result of people living a better life, which will improve the emotional well-being of every person, porn addict or not.
 

DeltaFosAware

Active Member
To me the main thing was to recover some semblance of normal life after PMO addiction. I'd say the severity of the addiction varied over time but I would agree that it led to a distorted and unhelpful view of women. Mentally, it produced a massive disconnect. How could you have some totally amazing female friends, people you would simply love being in the company of and at the same time hold this secret, angry, abusive view of 'women in General.'

I honestly think that if your mechanisms of self control are not strong enough, if the social rules don't seem to matter to you, if your sexual deires become strong enough, there could well be a link to abusing women. This is a KEY conopent in porn! You, the male are in control, you do what you want, you objectify human beings based on your need for sexual arousal.

I also begin to wonder how much external male violence may also be driven by porn use? This may not be directly towards women but towards others generally. Has the road rage user in his car just been jerking off to porn before he jumps out of his car at the lights and smashes your drivers window in with a hammer? Rather than porn dealing with the feelings of frustration it seems to redirect and recreate the same feelings.
 

Triptonicmaph

Active Member
Mart71 said:
Speaking of reasons to stop watching porn:

When I started with no-PMO, at first I only did it to recover from P.I.ED. Since then I learned and experienced myself, that long-term porn use has severely numbed me emotionally, influenced the way I see women and distorted my sexuality.These three things changed for the better after I stopped watching porn for a few months. These internal changes are the reason, why I never want to return to porn. Oh, and it gives me a limp dick, let's not forget that. LOL

I don't believe in no-PMO (as in simply being abstinent)giving anyone "super-powers". Imo these effects are usually a result of people living a better life, which will improve the emotional well-being of every person, porn addict or not.

Love your answer. Thank you!
 

tom46017

Member
What is PMO.  I cannot get hard and can cum only when watching porn but that is a 50/50 shot.  I have been porn free for only 19 days but I really do think RebootNation and other sites are going to get me cured.  Check out Sean Stewart on You Tube.  He is great.
 
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