Okay here we go on recovery

[Gunner]

Day 16 (I picked July 1st to start the reboot-easy to remember) and everything is going well. I am 44 and have been involved over the last 30 years in fantasy sex with magazines, movies, and now internet porn. I have to say the fantasy sex is AMAZING...I can really have an amazing orgasm when it is just me and the image of an incredible young lady in HD right in front of me.
So real sex is ho-hum...the girls are not as pretty, they are hard to find and get to agree to sex, and you got to worry about them getting off just as much as you....it is just a lot of work. So I have always mixed in my fantasy sex with real sex which worked great for a long while, but lately, perhaps due to age, energy, motivation...the fantasy sex is really all I need and I don't want to work at real sex.
But then I found I did not want to be alone all my life and I was starting to get bored with internet porn. Then I found this website and I thought, what the hell, I will just stop porn and masturbation all together....hell I need some purpose in my life.
And the cost of Viagra is making me broke.
So I have several ladies I am having sex with. I still get bored really quickly having sex with the same person, so I rotate them and I am always looking for new ones. I still have to use Viagra every session and they don't know about it. And I still don't cum every session, especially after a few sex sessions. But I know it is way early in the reboot...I will give this a year.
I want to get to the point where I am satisfied with one girl, about my age, I cum every time and I don't need Viagra...this is why I am doing this.

 

[tom46017]

Hang in there.  I am married but have sex very seldom with my wife.  I do not use Viagra.  It is too expensive for me.  I can only cum when I am watching porn.  I do not get totally hard like I used to but when I am watching porn I can get it up enough to jerk off and usually cum.

I am looking at internet studies on having an orgasm with out really shooting.  You may want to try looking at that.

Also, go to You Tube and search Sean Stewart.  He has helped me a lot. 

 

[Gunner]

Funny you mentioned orgasm without coming. I did that ALOT before getting with a girl. In my mind, I figured I can enjoy the pleasure of porn and climax and be "primed" for a real girl. It worked for a while, but that too, like most things, just started to slowly stop working. Also, climaxing without coming put a lot of strain on my junk, and caused some residual testicular pain which was not pleasant!

I have to really, really concentrate hard to cum with a girl. And this involves a porn scene or some pretty thing I saw out and about. On porn, no concentration necessary, it was so easy and addictive. I hope to fix that. I just want to be a better citizen lol.

Hence REBOOT is a perfect way to handle the situation.

 

[Gunner]

Okay, doing well on this no porn no faping thing. It has been three weeks and this has been the longest I have gone without porn and fap in 25 years. Seems incredible to me. I feel like this is an awakening. Maybe it is because I have had a steady stream of different sexy girls over the weekend. Internet dating is like shooting fish in a barrel (as long as you are not too picky). I can survive without porn when I can have a different girl every night...so what happens if the well of ladies run's dry? That scares me.

So it used to be I got bored and would go on internet porn to get that quick dopamine release. Now I go here and go on internet dating sites and keep my stable of women comfortable...we all need to fill the vacuum and mine is spinning plates of multiple women.

 

[Married with children]

I'm pretty sure quitting porn will increase you enjoyment of the real sex And I do agree, the porn is getting to good. Remember there are people out there with horrible sexless marriages that still wants to quit porn because of the increasingly negative effects. Just reading the posts will make you understand that PMO has to go.

I'm not sure the internet dating is so easy at 44, so you must be quite good at it

I'm the same age but happily married for 20 year. I think my marriage will survive, if not I might need some hints

 

[Gunner]

I think quitting porn and no faping already has increased my enjoyment of sex just after 3 weeks. Maybe it is because it is still new and novel, I don't know. But I really want to get off the Viagra and that is a little hard to let go of since maybe I still have PIED, but using Viagra makes for some really good long multiple sessions regardless.

I can't imagine being with just one person the rest of my entire life...thank goodness for internet dating. I have been doing it for years and have gotten a good system to increase my odds of bagging someone. And I only go out with girls at least 10years younger which makes dating fun.

I think porn is incredibly good right now and only going to get much, much better (think 3D, virtual reality glasses, immersion technology). Women will have more competition from fantasy sex rather than other women. And single women will have an extremely hard time competing against fantasy women. Eventually women will have to take the initiative because men will just want their fantasy sex and stop asking women out , getting rejected, paying for everything, and only to end up with much worse sex than virtual sex.