True2Myself
Member
Hi All,
I'm new to this site but SO glad I have found this wonderful resource. I've read many posts here, and try to find the ones that help me with my urges, and triggers (if anyone has good links on this subject I would you please share them?
I need all the help I can get! (approx day 19 of PMO so I have a long way to go)
I know that I need to protect myself FROM myself with restrictions, porn blockers and locks, and have so far been successful with these as a deterrent just long enough to stop the urges.
The one thing I can't seem to stop however are these flashbacks or mini-fantasies that pop into my conscious side many times a day. They never go into a full-blown sex scene, but more like a movie trailer, and enough to try to derail my progress. Some of the thoughts are from real-life experiences, but most are linked to porn scenes I've watched over and over, so I know they are etched in my brain. Also some of the flashback experiences I am able to extinguish almost immediately, but others just get going and are like a runaway train. :-[
Has anybody else had the same kind of flashbacks, and if so... will they go away on their own, just taking longer or what?
Again, any methods you guys who get those urges use to push them out (until they don't come back) would be GREATLY appreciated!
I am bound and determined that I am going to make this reboot and rewire work, but have been doing it so long, (40+ years) that I need some extra tools, and tips.
Thanks Ya'll
Thanks
I'm new to this site but SO glad I have found this wonderful resource. I've read many posts here, and try to find the ones that help me with my urges, and triggers (if anyone has good links on this subject I would you please share them?
I need all the help I can get! (approx day 19 of PMO so I have a long way to go)
I know that I need to protect myself FROM myself with restrictions, porn blockers and locks, and have so far been successful with these as a deterrent just long enough to stop the urges.
The one thing I can't seem to stop however are these flashbacks or mini-fantasies that pop into my conscious side many times a day. They never go into a full-blown sex scene, but more like a movie trailer, and enough to try to derail my progress. Some of the thoughts are from real-life experiences, but most are linked to porn scenes I've watched over and over, so I know they are etched in my brain. Also some of the flashback experiences I am able to extinguish almost immediately, but others just get going and are like a runaway train. :-[
Has anybody else had the same kind of flashbacks, and if so... will they go away on their own, just taking longer or what?
Again, any methods you guys who get those urges use to push them out (until they don't come back) would be GREATLY appreciated!
I am bound and determined that I am going to make this reboot and rewire work, but have been doing it so long, (40+ years) that I need some extra tools, and tips.
Thanks Ya'll
Thanks