I have went 7 days with out looking at porn or having an O. Last night I was with my lady friend and things went well. A few times I went soft, but all in all it was fine.
I did notice yesterday I was taking more notice women while out shopping.. Young or old they sure can get my attention.
I am sure not looking at porn or masturbating has increased my libido. I think the worse time for me was in the morning before going out, I would use the porn, then have lees interest in what was going on around me in real.
My usual agenda for today, after a night of sex would be to come home in the morning and look at porn and jerkoff, ,thinking I wouldn't be with my lady for a few days so,what's the harm.
From what I have been reading it takes some time for the brain to be ready for sex again,but by using porn I had no problem .
I have made up my mind not to search the web, and when I got an email that wanted to me to look at an update to a porn site that I was on the mailing list,I deleted the account.
I rather go some time jerk off free and feel horny, then always being sexually satisfied .
Even if I didn't have a partner I think masturbating once a week,but without using porn would be a better option. When I was a teen, I could jerk off daily with out porn, guess it was raging hormones, but it was natural. As we get older it is normal for our sex drive to diminish, so I feel the problem with porn is we are artificially trying to increase or sex drive.the problem is when we have the opportunity to have sex with a live person we are depleted.