Want to go back to having sex but afraid of ED

[Nad]

Hi,

As it says here, I'm 65 days "clean", had a flatline period, now started getting morning hard-ons and really feel like I want to go back
to having normal sex rather than pathetic masturbation in front of the computer.
My question is- has anyone here got to this stage and went back to having sex? I have a real fear of ED. I never experienced it although my erections were not great and I couldn't ejaculate, now I fear that being through this preocess I won't even be able to get hard.

Thanks guys!

 

[Mechanic10]

I got to around 60 days before and I remember the sex was pretty incredible, but it was different too - it felt very natural.  I also remember reading that there is something called reboot / hard mode, where you abstain from all O all together.  That is what I set out to do when I made it to around you are but the sex got the better of me, and it was great.

I would say try to go the distance without any O.  Heck you could even tell her that you are on a celibacy vow for personal reasons....

By the way, good job on making it that far, keep up the good work on stayin clean from PMO.

Mechanic

 

[womble]

Hi,

As it says here, I'm 65 days "clean", had a flatline period, now started getting morning hard-ons and really feel like I want to go back
to having normal sex rather than pathetic masturbation in front of the computer.
My question is- has anyone here got to this stage and went back to having sex? I have a real fear of ED. I never experienced it although my erections were not great and I couldn't ejaculate, now I fear that being through this preocess I won't even be able to get hard.

Thanks guys!

I tried real sex after day 10. Got fed up with feeling shit. Was not to bad had no trouble with an erection, but orgasm was difficult.

Tried again at day 18 again no problem with an erection, but no orgasm. I am currently on day 41 and the last few times I have had no problems. Just have to remember this is not porn, and real sex is not always as good as you would like, which is why it is best to keep trying

 

[Nad]

Thanks a lot to both  of you!! I definitely feel better and I'm ready to try! I also feel extremely sensitive, much more than I was "back in the days". My main problem was to get an orgasm and now I think there's a chance I will get it before I even start 

 

[womble]

Thanks a lot to both  of you!! I definitely feel better and I'm ready to try! I also feel extremely sensitive, much more than I was "back in the days". My main problem was to get an orgasm and now I think there's a chance I will get it before I even start 

You will be alright mate. Even if you do orgasm a bit too quick, just go for seconds after a little rest .