Help Me Leave That Black Rose Alone

[newguyneedschange]

6/17/14

I almost gave in this morning. I've been having a dry spell in the sex department, and maybe thats a good thing. I still get the urge to have sex and in the past my release was PMO. I stopped myself today which I am actually sort of proud of myself for. My usual pitfall is releasing from being in the mood but not having a natural way to release so I use artificial ways. I think I've only been giving this a half effort and now I'm feeling more ready to actually give it my all.

 

[LTE]

6/17/14

I almost gave in this morning. I've been having a dry spell in the sex department, and maybe thats a good thing. I still get the urge to have sex and in the past my release was PMO. I stopped myself today which I am actually sort of proud of myself for. My usual pitfall is releasing from being in the mood but not having a natural way to release so I use artificial ways. I think I've only been giving this a half effort and now I'm feeling more ready to actually give it my all.

It's a strange thing, but in order to have a healthy sex life you have to be in control which, usually, means that you have to learn to live without sex for a while. It's not so bad. I know that there are people that will disagree about this, but there are plenty of voices stating that porn is harmless too and we've seen that there's a problem with this as PIED has demonstrated.

Once you've realized that you are in control and that you aren't at the mercy of your sex drive, then you can keep sex reserved for reality and not for make believe.