JnanaYogiKarmaYogi
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Does a longer period of abstinence make it more difficult for rewiring with a real partner?
Amazing! Really happy to hear from you, I’ve been reading you for more than a year, I remember reading your journal in the first weeks of my reboot.Hello to all. I am back, I just wanted to give the thread a bump. So I think I ended up going like 1500 days hard mode. I probably went way more, but there was a point where I just stopped counting because I was doing good mentally. However in November I experienced a near lose of my son and I got highly stress and broke the hard mode streak. But I didn't let it bother me, also I noticed a great increase in morning wood once I logged off social media all forms of it. I highly recommend just getting off for a long period time if not indefinite. Once I got back on as a test I quickly lost morning wood I belive its from just seeing girls, creeping and looking a photos it just kept the old pathways up. So please I recommend Staying off all platforms. Things will start turning around once you do so.
So the reason I am back is I finally found someone that I click with and I openly told her about this issue and she is so supportive. I made it clear I didn't want to jump into sex and that I wanted to take it slow and just cuddle and rebuild. She so supportive and amazing and I just hope to be able to give you all hope.
Proud of u bro i’m 15 with severe pied porn can’t even get me up it’s been 4 months so far hopefully going strong i don’t really think i’m severe anymore cause sometimes when’s drilling on social media and seeing a girl i start to grow but i quickly scrollBilbo thank you sir.
Exciting update. So I informed my gf of PIED and and just opened up to her about what I does and how it's an issue and I need her to be understanding. I am thankful she was because it felt so much better when we actually start to be physical... I don't want to get into to many details for triggers. But all I can say is hardmode/and rewire truly work. I have had successful sex the past three days. Still have symptoms of PIED I am not fully cured but I was able to get it up, and us both orgasim multiple times. I am very happy with the results and I hope more can see that logging off and disconnecting from social media and physical and mentally connecting with someone is the best way to beat this issue. Still going to continue to be affectionate and passionate and try to be 100% I can get aroused by simply kissing now which was never a thing for me after 10 years of heavy heavy PIED.. I thought I was a lost cause but I can say I'm seeing nothing but results right now.
29 years old. Have had severe PIED since i was 19.Wow dude what a legend.... how old are you
still.you lose erection when you get up from bed?29 years old. Have had severe PIED since i was 19.
Not as of right now. Right now I have been able to actually been able to have sex while being on top as well and maintain an erection. This reboot has really transformed my life. Sex is as it should be now. Been dating a month almost and nothing but great results from being honest, affectionate, and disconnecting from the social media world. Morning erection are regular... spontaneous erection come occasionally as before it was never.still.you lose erection when you get up from bed?
Exactly! Porn works your nerve receptors just like drugs and alcohol, yet some doctors don't consider it as an addiction!I really just tell myself that pmo is just bad. Like drugs are bad.... but I really just work out and focus on life. I have not once thought about pmo. I am done.... I want the real thing not a madeup crap.
I am still having great progress. I have had lots of success since my last post. Staying hard, lasting long. I don't have any weird shakes like I had in previous relationships. Shakes I think had to do with porn. I am very happy with the results and can't stress how successful it is to go hardmode and stay off social networks. Put the phone down... log off instagram, Facebook, snap chat, whatever it is.... log off and live.Hello bro.... What's your progress... Now????
Kind words my friend. I keep climbing, I will stay firm on what I have said. Detach from social platforms. You will see the positive feelings it adds to your life. Open up to your partner, tell them porn is bad and what it can do. Share YouTube videos with them about these issues. Love, kiss, touch... these things helped me. At 19 I lost all abilities to gain an erection I went 10 years with a terrible sex life. I have had more loving for filling sex in 3 months than I have had in 10 years. So if it's any advice I can give... its what I stated above. Log off put the phone down and engage.This is really awesome! I am awed by your discipline and progress! Reading your story and transformation is fantastic motivation. How great it is to have love in your life and a woman who supports you! I also have a very loving and supportive wife and that definitely helps to be able to be open and talk with her about the whole process.
Congrats and greets from Germany BroKind words my friend. I keep climbing, I will stay firm on what I have said. Detach from social platforms. You will see the positive feelings it adds to your life. Open up to your partner, tell them porn is bad and what it can do. Share YouTube videos with them about these issues. Love, kiss, touch... these things helped me. At 19 I lost all abilities to gain an erection I went 10 years with a terrible sex life. I have had more loving for filling sex in 3 months than I have had in 10 years. So if it's any advice I can give... its what I stated above. Log off put the phone down and engage.
Great ending!Kind words my friend. I keep climbing, I will stay firm on what I have said. Detach from social platforms. You will see the positive feelings it adds to your life. Open up to your partner, tell them porn is bad and what it can do. Share YouTube videos with them about these issues. Love, kiss, touch... these things helped me. At 19 I lost all abilities to gain an erection I went 10 years with a terrible sex life. I have had more loving for filling sex in 3 months than I have had in 10 years. So if it's any advice I can give... its what I stated above. Log off put the phone down and engage.
Man. In my early teen I was mostly using magazines as my material. It wasn't till about 2010-2011 18-19 years old when I got a smart phone and a lap top that I was watching all the time all the time. It was a endless unhealthy amount.Congrats and greets from Germany Bro
I got a question, can you remember how often you watched porn ?
It’s very interested, because I’m 26 and now at day 36
I lost my libido 4-5 Months ago, sometimes there was a bit libido like “hmm yeah….. no” my penis was dead
Now come the interested part…. Since I break week 3 I got the same results like you after years
Spontaneous erection, extremely hard morning woods until I get up
I staying focus and patient, it’s just really interested that we got same results in different steps
I feel you big guyMan. In my early teen I was mostly using magazines as my material. It wasn't till about 2010-2011 18-19 years old when I got a smart phone and a lap top that I was watching all the time all the time. It was a endless unhealthy amount.