rider654321
Active Member
Hi Thimbuk2
I believe that the best way to reboot if you have a SO is to have sex as often as possible, because the more times your successful the more confident you'll become. Though I firmly believe you should work mostly on building the non sexual intimacy between you and your SO and just allow the sex to happen naturally.
When I began my reboot I was shown a link to a list of non sexual bonding techniques (it's in my journal) and I applied them to my relationship with Mrs Rider. There techniques are nothing all that unusual, in fact there just things that we as couples tend to forget to do for each other when you have busy day to day lives.
Making time to cuddle or just brushing my wife's hair. Simply things that build intimacy and feelings of love. When I did those things with my wife it just felt like a nice experience to share. It made us feel closer and more loving. Mrs Rider enjoyed the attention and sexual desire flowed from there naturally.
The thing is when we play together there's no expectation of it leading to an erection or sex, it's just sharing intimacy. But sex is the wonderful reward that we find generally happens for putting in that extra bit of effort.
So try to forget what your dick is doing and just let things happen naturally.
I believe that the best way to reboot if you have a SO is to have sex as often as possible, because the more times your successful the more confident you'll become. Though I firmly believe you should work mostly on building the non sexual intimacy between you and your SO and just allow the sex to happen naturally.
When I began my reboot I was shown a link to a list of non sexual bonding techniques (it's in my journal) and I applied them to my relationship with Mrs Rider. There techniques are nothing all that unusual, in fact there just things that we as couples tend to forget to do for each other when you have busy day to day lives.
Making time to cuddle or just brushing my wife's hair. Simply things that build intimacy and feelings of love. When I did those things with my wife it just felt like a nice experience to share. It made us feel closer and more loving. Mrs Rider enjoyed the attention and sexual desire flowed from there naturally.
The thing is when we play together there's no expectation of it leading to an erection or sex, it's just sharing intimacy. But sex is the wonderful reward that we find generally happens for putting in that extra bit of effort.
So try to forget what your dick is doing and just let things happen naturally.