I walk down the street like a Juggernaut but then I feel like this is not me....

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Triptonicmaph

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You notice that you have changed since day 0 of NoFap, you have become more confident and assertive.... But..

Do you feel uncomfortable because it is not normally who you used to be/who you are ? Have you ever gotten too attached to the better version of yourself? I think I have... :/ (maybe it's because I am not used to being this assertive and confident ever, but I'd like to hear what you have to say about it)
 
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Berens

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Yes, and this feeling of uncomfortable is good. You are becoming to live out of your comfort zone. I think now you are really becoming yourself. Someone said one time that we are not afraid of failure but we are afraid of being powerful over a measure. Dont let that uncomfortavle feeling archieve your true potential.
 
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jjhh

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Interesting topic.
I have definately felt something along those lines...
So far I have been really enjoying the new confidence level. But it has definately been a huge change and I sometimes it feels a bit foreign, and fake perhaps?
I don't want to turn to cocky douche. That's what overconfident people often appear like.

Edit. Anyway. I wouldn't worry about it too much. Enjoying the "new you" is amazing motivator. And perhaps it's the real you after all.
 
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Triptonicmaph

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jjhh said:
I don't want to turn to cocky douche. That's what overconfident people often appear like.
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          That's exactly what I'm talking about. I am afraid of being that cocky guy. I don't want to become what I hate...
 
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