Hey everyone,
I just started learning about why I may have a ED. I read and watched most of the videos about it from http://yourbrainonporn.com/. A great eye opener.
Now here is my dilemmas. I've been watching porn since I was probably 12(less to more over the years), I'm now 25. My porn habbit became progressively more aggressive as time went on(getting into more hardcore/unorthodox shit). I honestly thought my pot habit was what used to reduce my performance. I started to notice that I wasn't getting "Raging boners" anymore... less morning wood... etc. I can't even climax to porn anymore... well I can but it takes nearly an hour.
Now... the worst part about all this is that I just started to see this girl from work. I'm REALLY into her. We were friends for a good year prior to... and we started fooling around. First night I had drank a bit and couldn't get hard enough to penetrate her with a condom(fuck those things, just made me limp...). Which was the most embarrassing thing I've EVER experienced. I blamed it on whiskey dick and ate her out to make her cum. Second day I started to finger her and made her cum that way... mid way she asked "if it was ready yet", and I kinda just ignored it and made her cum and we cuddled(dodged that bullet).
I'm scared she'll move on if I tell her that I need to not fap/masterbate or have sex for a whole 2-3 months (at the very least). I'm really not a "player" in any way... In fact this is my second GF at the age of 25. Getting a girl is already hard enough for me... In fact I really never had sex with my first gf... so you guessed it I'm a virgin. This was my time to lose it, and I can't even do that.
What should I do? I just really don't have a clue how to bring this up.
Can I still have sex with viagra at least? I've tried to masterbate without porn and use viagra as a test and it worked. I could get hard and cum. Would this reset or slow down the process? Should I still attempt to erect while I "reset".
How long do you think the reboot process should take if I watched porn on average about 1 time per day in my earlier days, and more recently maybe 1-2 times a day... sometimes skipping days. 2 months suffice?
I used to have a 7.5 - 8 inch dick way back when I was athletic and in shape... at the age of 16-18. I now barely scrape 6.5 inches. Will this help with the length... I'm not sure if its just because I can't get a full blown erection anymore that I lose some inches.
Will working out help at all?
Any tips for my "journey"
Cheers and this sucks :/
I just started learning about why I may have a ED. I read and watched most of the videos about it from http://yourbrainonporn.com/. A great eye opener.
Now here is my dilemmas. I've been watching porn since I was probably 12(less to more over the years), I'm now 25. My porn habbit became progressively more aggressive as time went on(getting into more hardcore/unorthodox shit). I honestly thought my pot habit was what used to reduce my performance. I started to notice that I wasn't getting "Raging boners" anymore... less morning wood... etc. I can't even climax to porn anymore... well I can but it takes nearly an hour.
Now... the worst part about all this is that I just started to see this girl from work. I'm REALLY into her. We were friends for a good year prior to... and we started fooling around. First night I had drank a bit and couldn't get hard enough to penetrate her with a condom(fuck those things, just made me limp...). Which was the most embarrassing thing I've EVER experienced. I blamed it on whiskey dick and ate her out to make her cum. Second day I started to finger her and made her cum that way... mid way she asked "if it was ready yet", and I kinda just ignored it and made her cum and we cuddled(dodged that bullet).
I'm scared she'll move on if I tell her that I need to not fap/masterbate or have sex for a whole 2-3 months (at the very least). I'm really not a "player" in any way... In fact this is my second GF at the age of 25. Getting a girl is already hard enough for me... In fact I really never had sex with my first gf... so you guessed it I'm a virgin. This was my time to lose it, and I can't even do that.
What should I do? I just really don't have a clue how to bring this up.
Can I still have sex with viagra at least? I've tried to masterbate without porn and use viagra as a test and it worked. I could get hard and cum. Would this reset or slow down the process? Should I still attempt to erect while I "reset".
How long do you think the reboot process should take if I watched porn on average about 1 time per day in my earlier days, and more recently maybe 1-2 times a day... sometimes skipping days. 2 months suffice?
I used to have a 7.5 - 8 inch dick way back when I was athletic and in shape... at the age of 16-18. I now barely scrape 6.5 inches. Will this help with the length... I'm not sure if its just because I can't get a full blown erection anymore that I lose some inches.
Will working out help at all?
Any tips for my "journey"
Cheers and this sucks :/
