doneatlast
Well-Known Member
Hello all,
I had a thought the other day. For most addictions there is some common wisdom of things to do when you feel an "urge". When you feel like a cigarette do this, when you feel like a drink, do this other thing... and I wonder if a lack of these habits and bits of wisdom is what makes it so hard for all of us. Obviously the alternate activities don't fully blunt the impact of trying to give up something like this, but having something to do besides sit and hate the pain/urges certain can help! What really got me thinking about it was trying to drop a few pounds. You can have healthy foods on hand, you can drink water instead of eating, and so on. Even if I try to cut back drinking alcohol, I simply find a beverage I enjoy that is non alcoholic.
So, what do we have? I know some people have said exercise. I don't doubt that it helps, but it hasn't done much for me. Besides, if I have an urge at 11 p.m., I'm not going to jump on a tread mill to cool myself down. Other than that, I'm a bit lost. I don't expect anyone to come forth with any big easy answers, but hopefully a useful discussion can emerge.
Ideas?
I had a thought the other day. For most addictions there is some common wisdom of things to do when you feel an "urge". When you feel like a cigarette do this, when you feel like a drink, do this other thing... and I wonder if a lack of these habits and bits of wisdom is what makes it so hard for all of us. Obviously the alternate activities don't fully blunt the impact of trying to give up something like this, but having something to do besides sit and hate the pain/urges certain can help! What really got me thinking about it was trying to drop a few pounds. You can have healthy foods on hand, you can drink water instead of eating, and so on. Even if I try to cut back drinking alcohol, I simply find a beverage I enjoy that is non alcoholic.
So, what do we have? I know some people have said exercise. I don't doubt that it helps, but it hasn't done much for me. Besides, if I have an urge at 11 p.m., I'm not going to jump on a tread mill to cool myself down. Other than that, I'm a bit lost. I don't expect anyone to come forth with any big easy answers, but hopefully a useful discussion can emerge.
Ideas?