Hello. I have not looked at porn in over 4yrs. I am 56 and started with porn when I was 13. I needed to end it so I could have a chance at real intimacy. It ruined my marriage. Is there anyone else out there who is no longer feeling drawn to look at porn? Quitting porn was just the start for me. The harder part was stopping the fantasizing of women. Being able to watch a sex scene in a movie and not fantasize about the actress and want to act out. I have gotten through all of that. I have been with someone for 5yrs and she doesn't believe it's possible for me to no longer be tempted. She can't be with me out of fear I will relapse. Is there anyone out there who's made it to where I am? Am I the only one? She thinks so and doesn't believe me. I can't find anything on the internet about successful management of porn after years of sobriety, like I am experiencing. Any help is much appreciated.