DixieDude
New Member
I am 19 and have struggled with PMO for years. I have gone stints without it, but it has become more frequent in the past couple of years. I recently discovered yourbrainonporn.com and realized that this is something I need to do and that it's possible. Our culture has accepted it as normal, but I don't think that its acceptable, and don't want it to be in my life. I don't want to be normal! Normal is lame.
I am a Christian and believe that PMO is wrong and that is the main reason for my decision to stop. I have tried several times and even reached about 2 weeks no PMO, but I relapsed. The urges "became too strong," but I realize that this is not really true. In that two weeks I did see real benefits. I had more confidence with women and other men, and I didn't have this feeling of guilt and shame that I had become accustomed to. I actually had women checking me out, I even had one turn her head and smile at me as she was walking away from me, coolest thing ever! There is also a girl that I am interested in that I am about to ask out, I have NEVER asked a girl out before or been on a date. Its not like I consciously thought I don't want to go out, but I just didn't actively try too. When I tried no PMO it was like my mindset changed from existing to living with purpose.
I am going to do 90 days of no PMO.
I am a Christian and believe that PMO is wrong and that is the main reason for my decision to stop. I have tried several times and even reached about 2 weeks no PMO, but I relapsed. The urges "became too strong," but I realize that this is not really true. In that two weeks I did see real benefits. I had more confidence with women and other men, and I didn't have this feeling of guilt and shame that I had become accustomed to. I actually had women checking me out, I even had one turn her head and smile at me as she was walking away from me, coolest thing ever! There is also a girl that I am interested in that I am about to ask out, I have NEVER asked a girl out before or been on a date. Its not like I consciously thought I don't want to go out, but I just didn't actively try too. When I tried no PMO it was like my mindset changed from existing to living with purpose.
I am going to do 90 days of no PMO.