Hey Steve,
Take it slow. I think that you should try to avoid fantasies, if possible.
I think PMO addicts are prone to living in a fanstasy world, so I would recommend - try to treat fantasies just as you treat all PMO-related material.
Wait for the reboot to bring fruit. After the difficult period, which in your case still can take a few months, you will start feeling more and more confident. It will help a lot with girls.
J.