Thinking about real girls=set backs?

Stevew

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Is it ok to think about sex with real girls. Like girls you know? I mean not porn related e.g her screaming and doing mad stuff. Will this cause set backs?
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Steve
 
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You can't prevent it from happening anyway, and I wouldn't consider it to be a setback unless you, well, make up a porn-like setting in your mind. But since you seem to be aware of that danger, I believe you'll be reasonable.
 

Stevew

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I can't really reboot with a girl would you think like... thinking about them in realistic non porn scenarios almost help a little or not effect it atall?
 
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Why can't you?
And no, personally I wouldn't expect a positive effect from that. But that's just my personal opinion and thus open to question.
 

Stevew

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I wouldn't want a girlfriend of which if she wanted sex i would just say no. Plus being in school people gossip stuff etc... i can just imagine. Currently 55-60 days in.
 

jkkk

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Hey Steve,

Take it slow. I think that you should try to avoid fantasies, if possible.

I think PMO addicts are prone to living in a fanstasy world, so I would recommend - try to treat fantasies just as you treat all PMO-related material.

Wait for the reboot to bring fruit. After the difficult period, which in your case still can take a few months, you will start feeling more and more confident. It will help a lot with girls.

J.
 

Stevew

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Thanks. I've found my speech is also very bad even when speaking to my mum. I sluur words and take time to say things even though i know what i want to say. I'm sure thats partly social anxiety but speaking to your parents... anyways i'v been practising like reading out loud at home which i think seems to have helped a bit although i've done it for 2 days so i will have to see.
 
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