Have a date tomorrow night with a hottie. Time for xanax.

[PresidentCoolidge]

I got this hot girl's number a week ago, and I'm pretty sure it's about to go down tomorrow night after our date. She's really into me (she practically handed her number to me on a silver platter), and my friend, who knows her, says she's not looking for a relationship and she just wants to have fun. So...I put two and two together and realized that she probably wants my dick inside of her BAD.

My erection quality has been good so I know I'll probably be able to at least  have mediocre sex. The thing I'm worried about is performance anxiety, which I've lately noticed plays into my issues. I think, "what if I can't perform for her? She'll think I'm gay or some kind of freak!" So anyways, I got my hands on some Xanax and I figured that, as long as I'm on that shit, anxiety will be the least of my problems. Basically, I think it will generally help restore some confidence for me in the bedroom.

I'll let you guys know how it plays out and whether or not I recommend it? 

 

[Username]

I'm not in the position to be judgemental on this, but I doubt that's a good way to go, to be honest.
Your signature says that it's been seven hours since you last masturbated to porn so I guess we can agree that you haven't left your addiction behind you yet, correct? Also, considering your story there's not going to be much bonding so it's more about living your sexual fantasies, right?
Also, as I have experiences with antidepressants and such, I'd always recommend to use them only as the last resort. Doesn't seem to be the case here. Just my two cents, sorry.

 

[Irvin]

I totally agree with username. Get off the addiction first, and things will start getting back to their own places.

 

[PresidentCoolidge]

I've been PMOing recently but I took a 9 month break from masturbation and I've been good about spacing about my sessions. I honestly don't think I have PIED, just sayin'.

 

[Malibu]

DON'T TAKE XANAX BEFORE THE DATE. I'm pretty sure xanax makes it harder to get it up. Definitely don't take it before trying to have sex.

 

[PresidentCoolidge]

I'm sorry for making this post guys. It was really stupid. I was using this whole "performance anxiety" as an excuse to take xanax, simply because I wanted to take it. Bottom line. It actually caused me to be a little bit too aggressive with this girl and she had to back me off. I apologized and gave her a ride home. It wasn't a disaster because she still kissed me when I dropped her off, so I got my fingers crossed that she'll agree to go out with me again as long as I show her the respect that she deserves. However, I'm beginning to realize that drugs are not the answer to my problems.

My bad. I'm just going through kind of a rough time right now. You guys were right.

 

[Username]

Nobody's going to tell you off - it's great that you realized it yourself, I think!
And posting ideas like that are important to serve as examples for other people who might be about to do the same move (we have a lot of visitors here).
Hang in there!

 

[narfolee]

Hey man - even the girls who seem like they want just sex appreciate you genuinely getting to know them and their interests. Even if its getting to know her sexual interests. I think it makes them way more turned on actually! haha. Talk to her - apologize again. Go on maybe one more, no advances date - but don't lack confidence.

You'll be getting down in no time. Consider it a 3-night stand. Takes you three nights to get there but in the end its just sex.

Or is it ever...just...sex? hahaha its a female remember. Approach with caution.