Shodan
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So today is day 118 no PMO for me. It’s very familiar at this stage because I’ve been here before, however I haven’t been ‘here’. What I mean is, my longest streak of 721 days i wasn’t playing around or messing with PMO at all, but I was lax in certain areas i.e looking at women on the street, still floating around social media for eye Candy. I’ve since cut out social media altogether. Sometimes at work im very bored and I go on SM for five minutes and I’m reminded why I came off it in the first place - it’s garbage. I keep my eyes to myself when I walk up the street, being a taller man of 6’6 I tend to look ‘up’ rather than down at the floor. I gave up smoking cannabis and tobacco, something I’d done since I was a late-teenager, I train at the gym every morning, 7 days a week. I’m studying the Japanese martial art of Ninjutsu which I’ve developed a passion for, so much so that I’ll be furthering my studies and when I travel to Japan in November. My life now doesn’t resemble the lifestyle of a PMO addict and for that I’m truly grateful. None of this had I done at all even on my longest streak. I’m coming into the best shape and fitness level of my entire adult life.
The thing for me is, I still haven’t experienced the rawness of the dreaded flatline, certainly not for a long period. I’ve had days where I’ve felt absolutely awful, no motive to get started at work, to talk to people, or even look at my phone. I’ve gone in and out I would say but no long continuous period.
Some days, I struggle with arousal. There is a woman I have had sexual relations with in the recent past that I talk to quite often, and even though we absolutely are not sexting or talking about sexual behaviour I still swell down there. Even the thought of her gets me excitedly aroused. Perhaps I’m overthinking it, the idea that I ‘struggle’ to not do something that I once struggled to do at all makes me laugh to myself but on a serious note, (this is an open question) am I on the right track?
The thing for me is, I still haven’t experienced the rawness of the dreaded flatline, certainly not for a long period. I’ve had days where I’ve felt absolutely awful, no motive to get started at work, to talk to people, or even look at my phone. I’ve gone in and out I would say but no long continuous period.
Some days, I struggle with arousal. There is a woman I have had sexual relations with in the recent past that I talk to quite often, and even though we absolutely are not sexting or talking about sexual behaviour I still swell down there. Even the thought of her gets me excitedly aroused. Perhaps I’m overthinking it, the idea that I ‘struggle’ to not do something that I once struggled to do at all makes me laugh to myself but on a serious note, (this is an open question) am I on the right track?
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