ScaredofED
Member
This is exceedingly hard for me to write, but I hope I have come to the right location to get some advice/help.
I'm a 23 year old male, and until last night, I was a virgin. I had never, EVER, had a problem getting hard (read: rock fucking solid), although more recently I'd exclusively been using porn to get there. Last night, the best I could do was a partial before I'd go flaccid again. I am mentally, emotionally, and physically in agony right now. I am so ashamed of my massive failure.
I heard Gabe Deem on CBC not long ago, and to be honest, I scoffed at it, and thought never in a million years would I experience the same thing. Now, I'm scared. I'd been using porn as my primary source of sexual stimulation for the better part of 10 years, and I'm worried I'm going through exactly what he has described, with I guess the other possibility being just sexual anxiety.
If someone has experienced similar things, or has advice to give, I'm all ears.
edit: I think I posted this in the wrong spot, if anyone wishes to move it, feel free.
I'm a 23 year old male, and until last night, I was a virgin. I had never, EVER, had a problem getting hard (read: rock fucking solid), although more recently I'd exclusively been using porn to get there. Last night, the best I could do was a partial before I'd go flaccid again. I am mentally, emotionally, and physically in agony right now. I am so ashamed of my massive failure.
I heard Gabe Deem on CBC not long ago, and to be honest, I scoffed at it, and thought never in a million years would I experience the same thing. Now, I'm scared. I'd been using porn as my primary source of sexual stimulation for the better part of 10 years, and I'm worried I'm going through exactly what he has described, with I guess the other possibility being just sexual anxiety.
If someone has experienced similar things, or has advice to give, I'm all ears.
edit: I think I posted this in the wrong spot, if anyone wishes to move it, feel free.