Does anyone else get random sex fantasies during the day

Beachy

Member
Over 3 weeks into the reboot and all going well except one thing. The only issue I have is regular fantasies that just pop into my head. It usually takes me a few minutes to work out I'm fantasizing and then stop myself. I often find myself fantasising again a few minutes later and have to stop it again. Happens every morning when I wake up and various times during the day. They're not porn fantasies and usually involve someone I'd like to sleep with but I'm just trying to keep them out of my head to make sure I stay on track.

Does this happen to anyone else? Does it lesson as time goes on?
 
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Robert20

Guest
I get the exact same thing mate as well! It's not porn at all I'm fantasizing, but when I go to sleep at night and wake up and during the day I get random scenarios of women in my head who I'd like to sleep with! I guess this is normal though right? I got to day 30 in my last reboot and I made some good progress with those fantasy things popping in my head regularly. I guess if it's not porn we are fantasizing, it might be okay? I really don't know, but I get this exact thing as you too.
Good luck with your reboot though man, have you seen any improvements?  :)
 
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Numez

Guest
I have dreams like that and yeah every time I wake up with erection or if I get little horny talking with a girl I start fantasizing. it also happens randomly but not that often.

its a problem, I can go without porn for life and without masturbations for a few months but this fantasy thing is killing me its automatic.

is it so damaging in itself or its more damaging cause of increased posibility of PMO?

Sorry4ma english
 

Beachy

Member
Robert20, I am getting some progress with morning wood and I could MO now if I wanted with full erection whereas before I couldn't get an erection without porn and even then it was only part. I'm also in the middle of a big flatline, which makes this whole process a lot easier. Mind you I gave up porn 11 months ago but kept using pills to have sex because of continued ED. I'm going hard mode now to get this ED sorted.

I spent time with my ex yesterday and felt no inclination to do anything with her, which is very unusual. Others fear the flatline but I welcome it because the first few weeks I just wanted to jump on everything and it made this process difficult. I'll keep going hard mode until the end of Jan and then reassess.

There is no greater goal than a functioning sex life for a guy is there...a great motivator. So I'm happy to stay the course. Hope you're travelling well mate. This is a bitch of a process so cheers for the support. I'll keep an eye on your progress as well. Good luck.
 

Fappy

Respected Member
Yeah but the difference is now that when i get them i recognise them for the illusions that they are. In past days id go to the nearest private place and fap one out.
 
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