PLEASE HELP!!!!! PLEASE!!!!!

[TheRealDeal333]

Alright so I am in day 26 of the no PMO challenge BUT today I hooked up with a friend who we sorta got hot and heavy which then lead to her giving me a HANDJOB. Now it felt great and i have NO PROBLEM with ED but I am worried that I delayed or ruined my progress?? DO I need to reset?? did I ruin my reboot???

 

[Rockit]

Depends on what you were trying to accomplish.

How do you feel about it?

As for delaying your progress/reboot, relapses can happen.  Just keep working hard, and keep moving forward. 

 

[TheRealDeal333]

So I do not need to reset? Guess I am doing standard form which is no PMO but sex sure. I just want the benefits from it. I do not have ED nor any of that but porn has fucked me up.

 

[Rockit]

For me, I try not to have any handjobs if I am fantasizing about stuff while it's being done.  If I'm with my girlfriend, and it happens, and I'm focused on her, I'm fine with it.

I have actually tried to avoid handjobs because of how close the action is to when I'm masturbating.  It is tough.

 

[The320Pilot]

We sorta got hot and heavy which then lead to her giving me a HANDJOB. Now it felt great and i have NO PROBLEM with ED but I am worried that I delayed or ruined my progress?? DO I need to reset?? did I ruin my reboot???

You may reset the counter if you REALLY think you should, but I don't think you should. Even though you had an O (at least that's what I think), if there was no fantasizing at all, I think you can go on. The reboot is not ruined. Your body will perhaps feel it had an O, but you are basically trying to get away from P and M (which lead to O), but a real sex encounter is natural sex, not artificial. That's my thought.

Be good. 

 

[OSS]

No you didn't relapse, no do not reset your counter.

We are addicted to watching porn and masturbating to porn, if we indulge in watching porn then that is what a relapse is. Your counter you have is for PMO, you didn't PMO so don't reset

Since you had no problem with ED you've already made tremendous progress at 27 days. Rewiring is what you NEED. Rewiring means spending time with real women both sexual and not. Because you had no ED I would recommend you take this chance to rewire as much as possible... However, if you find that your erections start becoming worse then you are either flat linning or Oing too much in which case all you have to do is O less and gauge progress from there..