Hey fellas,
Today is day 105 for me since I last masturbated, and 120 since I last watched porn. My question is about the fantasies. Do you guys get them? Do they cause you to get an erection? How often do you get them? When do you get them? (Lots of questions as you can see).
The fantasies I've been getting having been moving in cycles, sometimes I get them a 2-3 times a day, sometimes just once, sometimes none. They are always of girls who I have slept with in the past, and with whom the sex was great (hence why I remember them). When I get these fantasies, I do start to get an erection. The episodes usually only last a few seconds in my mind, then I get back to whatever I was doing (I often find myself having some of these fantasies pop into my head while driving...maybe this could be a different type of DUI). The erection comes and goes quick, and it's not even a full hard on (or even half of a hard on).
Does anybody else get these? Do you start to get an erection? How often do you get them? How do you avoid them? How do you handle them? Is a fantasy considered a relapse?
This is where having ADD can be a real obstacle. I have ADD, and as such, my mind simply wanders a lot. Sometimes I'll see a billboard or see a hot woman, and presto, next thing I know I'm fantasizing about one of my previous partners and starting to get an erection (again, these are very quick episodes, usually seconds, so there is no time for an entire hard-on)
Would appreciate any and all info anyone can provide. As always, I really appreciate this community and the support system that exists here. I know I would not be able to do this if I was alone.
Today is day 105 for me since I last masturbated, and 120 since I last watched porn. My question is about the fantasies. Do you guys get them? Do they cause you to get an erection? How often do you get them? When do you get them? (Lots of questions as you can see).
The fantasies I've been getting having been moving in cycles, sometimes I get them a 2-3 times a day, sometimes just once, sometimes none. They are always of girls who I have slept with in the past, and with whom the sex was great (hence why I remember them). When I get these fantasies, I do start to get an erection. The episodes usually only last a few seconds in my mind, then I get back to whatever I was doing (I often find myself having some of these fantasies pop into my head while driving...maybe this could be a different type of DUI). The erection comes and goes quick, and it's not even a full hard on (or even half of a hard on).
Does anybody else get these? Do you start to get an erection? How often do you get them? How do you avoid them? How do you handle them? Is a fantasy considered a relapse?
This is where having ADD can be a real obstacle. I have ADD, and as such, my mind simply wanders a lot. Sometimes I'll see a billboard or see a hot woman, and presto, next thing I know I'm fantasizing about one of my previous partners and starting to get an erection (again, these are very quick episodes, usually seconds, so there is no time for an entire hard-on)
Would appreciate any and all info anyone can provide. As always, I really appreciate this community and the support system that exists here. I know I would not be able to do this if I was alone.