NeverSayNever
Member
Hi,
My porn "poison" so to say is shemale porn. Once I discovered that in my mid twenties (now I am 38), it has never failed to arouse me (and also maybe a bit of lesbian porn, otherwise, straight porn does not turn me on anymore). Anyways, about a year and a half ago, I was in Thailand for business, and one day I thought let me try it out and ordered a ladyboy escort to my hotel. She (he) was not that pretty, and the experience left me very shaken, specially because I almost regressed to my extreme religious childhood and saw myself as worthless and can't be saved after performing this act. How my family will completely disown me if they have known this, blah blah,,,,and wept almost the whole night through. A terrible terrible feeling.
Since then, I have been involved in some tantric group, taken some crazy workshops on sexual deconditioning and a bit more open to any kind of sexuality and fantasy, so lately I am having a deep urge to try it again (With a shemale) and see how it feels this time, as there will be no moral dilemma about it , I guess. So I started checking out escort sites about that, but all hte ones I have seen are a bit too masculine etc (the ones I am attracted to, at least in porn are those that can trick almost anyone to be a women, specially petite asian ones with a pretty face). So about few months ago, I saw one that is prettier than any woman I have ever been to, who advertised that she will come to my city soon. So I keep going there to see if she has come etc.... and most of the time, I end up visiting shemale porn after that (watching her pictures is just too much of a trigger). So I don't want to do that anymore and get triggered, but at the same time, I really really wanna sleep with this "girl" if she comes to my town, so don't wanna miss the chance.
So my main question is: what do you think of my urge to experiment with this in real life? Is it gonna fuck me up completely? Will it turn out to be an even more strong addiction, if I end up enjoying it a lot? That is actually what I am afraid of (getting addicted to that) as it can really ruin me financially, because the prices these escorts are quoting is 250+USD per hour!
My porn "poison" so to say is shemale porn. Once I discovered that in my mid twenties (now I am 38), it has never failed to arouse me (and also maybe a bit of lesbian porn, otherwise, straight porn does not turn me on anymore). Anyways, about a year and a half ago, I was in Thailand for business, and one day I thought let me try it out and ordered a ladyboy escort to my hotel. She (he) was not that pretty, and the experience left me very shaken, specially because I almost regressed to my extreme religious childhood and saw myself as worthless and can't be saved after performing this act. How my family will completely disown me if they have known this, blah blah,,,,and wept almost the whole night through. A terrible terrible feeling.
Since then, I have been involved in some tantric group, taken some crazy workshops on sexual deconditioning and a bit more open to any kind of sexuality and fantasy, so lately I am having a deep urge to try it again (With a shemale) and see how it feels this time, as there will be no moral dilemma about it , I guess. So I started checking out escort sites about that, but all hte ones I have seen are a bit too masculine etc (the ones I am attracted to, at least in porn are those that can trick almost anyone to be a women, specially petite asian ones with a pretty face). So about few months ago, I saw one that is prettier than any woman I have ever been to, who advertised that she will come to my city soon. So I keep going there to see if she has come etc.... and most of the time, I end up visiting shemale porn after that (watching her pictures is just too much of a trigger). So I don't want to do that anymore and get triggered, but at the same time, I really really wanna sleep with this "girl" if she comes to my town, so don't wanna miss the chance.
So my main question is: what do you think of my urge to experiment with this in real life? Is it gonna fuck me up completely? Will it turn out to be an even more strong addiction, if I end up enjoying it a lot? That is actually what I am afraid of (getting addicted to that) as it can really ruin me financially, because the prices these escorts are quoting is 250+USD per hour!