21 days No Ejaculation and I am panicking....

[Hetrix Mex]

I've done 16+ days reboots couple of times. Each time I had a wet dream on day 16 or day 17. Since the last time I PMO'ed I noticed signs of Erectile Dysfunction for the first time, by porn and I haven't got any erections since then.

I assume that the reason I don't have any Wet dreams is because I can't have any erections anymore in the first place. I am worried what will happen if I go on like this without ejaculations. My head and balls feels funny already. I know they won't explode but it feels like it.

Any advise, anyone?  How long have you personally gone without ejaculation (including no wet dreams ) ? I got another issue which I will write on the next post.

 

[grub]

It seems fortunate to not have one.  Many traditional medicine systems that, despite all that they didn't get quite right, were wise enough to recognize that excessive orgasm drains vitality, consider nocturnal emissions as part of the problem; vital force is lost through the loss of semen.

Strangely I've never had one (28 years old.)  Maybe it's a bad sign.  It's true that I've been masturbating very regularly ever since I first learned how.

 

[Hetrix Mex]

Thank you guys. Appreciate it.

Any more advice from anyone else?

 

[Yuri]

24 days now. I have had more. That is no problem mate. You have a lot of energy in your genitals and you have to release it in your body. This energy can be pulled up to your head and then led to your stomach. Probably you can start here http://yourbrainonporn.com/tools-solo-energy-practices but i did read "Multi orgasmic man" . Another rebooter gave me that advise (probably it was "NTG").

 

[Mbg]

I have gone 114 days without masturbation and in that time had only 3 orgasms, twice during sex and once from a wet dream.  And hey! I'm still alive!  Contrary to popular belief, you will not blow up from not masturbating.  Wet dreams seem to be a the body releasing built up pressure and are totally out of ones control.  In the last 4.5 months I have masturbated only once.  You may be experiencing withdrawals right now which is pretty typical if sexual addicts.  They will get better I promise.  I went through it too and it was hell.  Lingering depression, headaches, mood swings, and overall discomfort but it all passed after 3 weeks or so.  I won't say maintaining sobriety is easy, it takes persistence and mental focus, but the clarity I have received is enough for me to stay on the wagon. 

 

[Hetrix Mex]

Thank you for the encouragement Mbg, I too have received enough clarity to stay put on this wagon.

And thank you Yuri, I checked out these special exercises but I doubt if these are healthy for us rebooters?



Anymore advices would be awesome!

 

[Fappy]

If Sesame Street taught me anything, its that everyone is different and it doesnt do much good to compare yourself to others when you consider what is "normal". I mean, look at bert and ernie...
What im saying is that since there arent any adverse effects to your not ejaculating for 21 days, this must be normal for your body. Other people cant go a few days without ejaculating and not feel weird.
Just relax, if your body has a problem it will let you know 8)

Fapalicious

 

[Hetrix Mex]

haha Fappy, thanks for that, actually I finally had a wet dream last night and weird my noodle wasn't erect, I thought it should be firm for it to ejaculate. Anyway, thank u for the Seasame street encouragement even though I haven't watched it.

 

[Mbg]

Thank you for the encouragement Mbg, I too have received enough clarity to stay put on this wagon.

And thank you Yuri, I checked out these special exercises but I doubt if these are healthy for us rebooters?



Anymore advices would be awesome!

I actually became triggered by searching online for these "exercises", namely the own-body sexual yoga.  Perhaps some may find benefit in these types of exercises but for me, seeing the words "sexual" and "yoga" triggers me so I must stay away.  I really utilize control exercises in my daily life.  When I begin to fantasize I do a mental meditation where I invision the particular fantasy dissipating into a windstorm on top of a mountain.  Sounds crazy but it helps me see how insignificant my fantasies are. 

I only speak from my own experience and realize that we all have our own issues.  For me, porn AND masturbation have been compulsive for me.  Exercises involving any prolonged amount of "genital massage" are surely going to cause me to M compulsively.  I hope no other rebooters become triggered by these exercises like I was/am.