I came across the notion of rebooting some months ago after I PMO'd days after my return from honeymoon with my new wife. I couldn't understand why, at that point, I just HAD to PMO. I'm completely in love with her. She's the only one for me. Yet, I couldn't resist the temptation even though I knew that as a married man, secretive (and excessive) porn use couldn't be a good thing. It was at that point I learnt about my probable porn addiction (after discovering yourbrainonporn). And I thought it was a real turning point. Sadly it wasn't.
Over the months since I've tried to reboot numerous times but haven't been able to resist the urge to fap, which inevitably leads to PMO and then another attempt to reboot.
But I'm now at a critical point and really need help to stick with it. My wife has mentioned the idea of having kids (which I'd want too) and there have been a couple of times where she's asked me to O during sex. Problem is, my secret porn addiction means I've suffered from DE my whole life (and seemingly had undiagnosed PIED before meeting my wife). She doesn't know any of this, of course.
Anyway, despite knowing all this, I PMO'd earlier today. I'm exhausted from the internal conflict I'm constantly putting myself through. I thought the discovery of learning about my likely porn addiction those months ago would change things. If anything, I feel worse, as I know all I need to do is give my brain a rest and I should be fine. But I can't seem to do it.
This is the first time I've registered on a forum or anything. And I'd just like to know if anyone has any advice or support they can give me.
Thanks
Alex
Ps I've always tried to do the 90-day reboot to be timed with memorable dates. This isn't one. So if anyone has any suggestions for how I can make sure I don't 'forget' I'm on a reboot, let me know.
Over the months since I've tried to reboot numerous times but haven't been able to resist the urge to fap, which inevitably leads to PMO and then another attempt to reboot.
But I'm now at a critical point and really need help to stick with it. My wife has mentioned the idea of having kids (which I'd want too) and there have been a couple of times where she's asked me to O during sex. Problem is, my secret porn addiction means I've suffered from DE my whole life (and seemingly had undiagnosed PIED before meeting my wife). She doesn't know any of this, of course.
Anyway, despite knowing all this, I PMO'd earlier today. I'm exhausted from the internal conflict I'm constantly putting myself through. I thought the discovery of learning about my likely porn addiction those months ago would change things. If anything, I feel worse, as I know all I need to do is give my brain a rest and I should be fine. But I can't seem to do it.
This is the first time I've registered on a forum or anything. And I'd just like to know if anyone has any advice or support they can give me.
Thanks
Alex
Ps I've always tried to do the 90-day reboot to be timed with memorable dates. This isn't one. So if anyone has any suggestions for how I can make sure I don't 'forget' I'm on a reboot, let me know.