I need advice on this opinion

bowenreboot

New Member
I feel like the brain is defending itself by telling and shouting to me that the porn are valuable. "What?s it wrong with a naked woman? Don?t you like it? You are a big boy and you deserve some nice videos." I could hear these words. I really need a reason to beat them. I am on Day 6 of my reboot.

 

Chaos Mind

Active Member
Looks like the little child in your brain is really pissed you deny him his piece of chocolate.
What a great decision not listening to him, but ask for help instead!

So your subconsciousness speaks to you and wants to know what's so bad about looking at naked women? Tell it this:

It's not bad to look at naked women. But those are not naked women. They are the image of naked women. They are not real, they are fake! And when you crave these pictures and videos, it has not understood that there is a difference between the virtual and the real world.

Tell it that you wouldn't have any problems if you hadn't carried it to excess the past years. You've had your chance to deal with images in a healthy way but you didn't. So now you've got to face the consequence and be strict.

Tell it...if it wants to suffer from PIED, never find a girlfriend or wive in the future, feeling depressed and anxious - then it shall go ahead. If it thinks you have another life to go after this one ends: then go on and induldge yourself. But if you realize that your life on earth is finite and you surely don't want to mess things up, then it might be wise to resign.

Striking a balance usually is the best idea. But you and me, we are beyond that line. We cannot go back and simply say we want to reduce. Chemical reactions in our brains will always shoot down any attempt to do so. So we need drastic changes. We've had our fun. Now it's over - for good.
 

Beachy

Member
Bowenreboot. This is one of the most confusing parts of the process. Your brain controls what you do and sadly those things it's trying to get you to do are in fact doing damage. You deserve a fulfilling sex life with a beautiful, real women. Beats videos every time. Stay strong friend, this is the most difficult part but it will get easier.
 
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