April 24, 2015
After being 40 days clean, my addiction is starting to kick in again.
While being in a almost complete flatline so far, in the last 2 days the urge of watching porn has been appearing again.
In this period I have been motivated, strong, committed to a healthier life, focusing on work, study, good diet and work out.
Yesterday though, my brain was craving something, was making me feel miserable, like I needed something to excite my life, to give me some stronger emotions and feelings that porn has been giving me in the past.
So even if I have blocked my browser with K9, even though I have been avoiding all kind of social networking interaction to avoid sexual images, today I started browsing on twitter porn stars, and so I was hooked again.
I masturbated for a while even though I haven't relapsed, I was completely vulnerable - All the defenses I have created around me were gone and I couldn't stop watching those images and videos. My brain finally had what it was looking for.
I'm only happy that I didn't relapse and that somehow I was able to manage to stop.
What I learned is that these types of moments are part of the rebooting, and that I need to be stronger and be prepared when they will arrive again.
I'm more committed now to keep going, and I still don't want to reset my counter, but keep going with it. But somehow I know that today is day 0 again, because from tomorrow I will have a better understanding of my deep problem and that I can destroy it only if I will always prepared to go though them, only if I will be ready to suffer and avoid anyways the need of feeling again the way porn makes me feel.
You have to go through hell, you need to be persistent and make sure that you know that those needs will appear at some point, but keep on focusing on the long term result, keep on focusing on how you will feel when you will be successful in getting rid of all these stuff, and how much better your life will be when you will have your real feelings and your person in control again.
Only going through to all the pain that your brain and your body is giving you because you got rid of porn and being persistent not watching porn to have a short relief, you will conquer your real life again.
It's just to same of having been addicted to heroin: those who stop are just those ones that are strong enough to say no, and don't give them a little relief having it again. Only those ones that won't ever use it anymore for the rest of their life will be able to win and get their life back to normal.
Porn is the same type of addiction, so be prepared, surround yourself of whatever you need to reach your goal.
I hope I will be strong enough to win my frustration, boredom, sadness and bad feelings that my condition is giving me right now. I will be only focused on the long term results, being aware that if I will keep going and I will be persistent, I will reach the point of being a better person, with real feelings and be able to have a real relationship one day.
good luck, to you and to me.
After being 40 days clean, my addiction is starting to kick in again.
While being in a almost complete flatline so far, in the last 2 days the urge of watching porn has been appearing again.
In this period I have been motivated, strong, committed to a healthier life, focusing on work, study, good diet and work out.
Yesterday though, my brain was craving something, was making me feel miserable, like I needed something to excite my life, to give me some stronger emotions and feelings that porn has been giving me in the past.
So even if I have blocked my browser with K9, even though I have been avoiding all kind of social networking interaction to avoid sexual images, today I started browsing on twitter porn stars, and so I was hooked again.
I masturbated for a while even though I haven't relapsed, I was completely vulnerable - All the defenses I have created around me were gone and I couldn't stop watching those images and videos. My brain finally had what it was looking for.
I'm only happy that I didn't relapse and that somehow I was able to manage to stop.
What I learned is that these types of moments are part of the rebooting, and that I need to be stronger and be prepared when they will arrive again.
I'm more committed now to keep going, and I still don't want to reset my counter, but keep going with it. But somehow I know that today is day 0 again, because from tomorrow I will have a better understanding of my deep problem and that I can destroy it only if I will always prepared to go though them, only if I will be ready to suffer and avoid anyways the need of feeling again the way porn makes me feel.
You have to go through hell, you need to be persistent and make sure that you know that those needs will appear at some point, but keep on focusing on the long term result, keep on focusing on how you will feel when you will be successful in getting rid of all these stuff, and how much better your life will be when you will have your real feelings and your person in control again.
Only going through to all the pain that your brain and your body is giving you because you got rid of porn and being persistent not watching porn to have a short relief, you will conquer your real life again.
It's just to same of having been addicted to heroin: those who stop are just those ones that are strong enough to say no, and don't give them a little relief having it again. Only those ones that won't ever use it anymore for the rest of their life will be able to win and get their life back to normal.
Porn is the same type of addiction, so be prepared, surround yourself of whatever you need to reach your goal.
I hope I will be strong enough to win my frustration, boredom, sadness and bad feelings that my condition is giving me right now. I will be only focused on the long term results, being aware that if I will keep going and I will be persistent, I will reach the point of being a better person, with real feelings and be able to have a real relationship one day.
good luck, to you and to me.