On the forums, there is discussion about wives and how they are. I feel that some of these are akin to the old saying, "If God seems far away, better see who moved."
All of these marriages and or long term relationships, began with two happy people dedicated to creating a life together and sharing their lives. They talk till the wee hours of the morning, laugh at each others jokes and make love spontaneously and fun. Then something changes and the people that could once talk, don't. And at least looking at it from the perspective of this forum porn steps in. It is the answer for not talking, it is the answer for bad day at work, it is the answer to money problems, it is the answer to wife is ill I have to do more, it is the answer to she said no not tonight (maybe more than once), if there is a problem, it is the answer. And since it is a secret thing it gets you through.
But, the talking is gone first. Because the problem can be soothed for a time with porn and talking about the problem is not necessary and you have all the women we need. Then the sex goes because you have all the women you need and they are ready whenever you are and they do not say no. So you do not talk anymore, cuddle anymore. You have a new go to.....porn. So as each of these steps take place you move away from your wife/GF. She is still there. She has to take care of everything that you do not feel like doing anymore. And she does not feel the connection that was there. It has changed.
If we once were your reason for living, why do you change us to a bystander?
All of these marriages and or long term relationships, began with two happy people dedicated to creating a life together and sharing their lives. They talk till the wee hours of the morning, laugh at each others jokes and make love spontaneously and fun. Then something changes and the people that could once talk, don't. And at least looking at it from the perspective of this forum porn steps in. It is the answer for not talking, it is the answer for bad day at work, it is the answer to money problems, it is the answer to wife is ill I have to do more, it is the answer to she said no not tonight (maybe more than once), if there is a problem, it is the answer. And since it is a secret thing it gets you through.
But, the talking is gone first. Because the problem can be soothed for a time with porn and talking about the problem is not necessary and you have all the women we need. Then the sex goes because you have all the women you need and they are ready whenever you are and they do not say no. So you do not talk anymore, cuddle anymore. You have a new go to.....porn. So as each of these steps take place you move away from your wife/GF. She is still there. She has to take care of everything that you do not feel like doing anymore. And she does not feel the connection that was there. It has changed.
If we once were your reason for living, why do you change us to a bystander?